r/Blackmailers

Hey all,
F25 from Germany here. I never had a slave where I really controlled his life. I want that you follow these rules

1. call me queen

2. tell me how I can own and blackmail you. How you can not escape

3. tell me your kinks and limits

4. I’m into celebs so you have to send me pics of them

5. never respect yourself

6. tell me what you did already as a slave

7. be ready to show yourself

8. a no is not allowed

9. we need to cage your cock

10. I don’t show myself

repeat the rules

I hope I can find the best slaves here and use them

The following is a retelling of a consensual CNC scene. Names and locations have been changed. All parties were over 18 at the time of these events

Two of my biggest CNC kinks are consensual stalking and consensual blackmail. I love starting with just a couple of clues and slowly tracking down enough information about my victim that I can use the information I've gathered to threaten and control them.

About four years ago, I met a woman on another online platform who had a fantasy of being tracked down and used. She had a very uncommon name, and she (unwisely) had chosen a username that was FirstnameLastname101. For her privacy we'll just call her Elizabeth. After we discussed boundaries and picked a safeword, Elizabeth told me what city she lived in (Chattanooga, only 2 hours away from me) and sent me a few nude pics (with her face blurred) and asked if I could hunt her using only what I knew. I said "we'll see" and kept chatting with her.

It turned out Elizabeth was very easy to track down. There were only a few people in her city with her surname, and they were all her relatives. I found several Facebook pages of people close to her, and I decided to reveal what I knew.

Me: "My hunt has been going well"

Elizabeth: "It has? Oh God. What did you find?"

Me: "I found a few things. Are you frightened?"

Elizabeth: "My heart is pounding right now"

Me: "And your pussy?"

Elizabeth: "So wet. What did you find?"

Me: "I want you to rub it as I show you"

She rubbed as I sent the first screenshot... her own Facebook page.

Elizabeth: "Fuck. Is that all?"

Me: "Now I know what you look like. You're a pretty girl, Elizabeth. It's a pity you weren't brave enough to send me pics with your face"

Elizabeth: "OMG. What else did you find?"

Me: "Are you still rubbing?"

Elizabeth: "...yes sir."

I sent the next screenshot... of her father's Facebook page.

Elizabeth: "FUCK"

Me: "Still rubbing?"

Elizabeth: "How did you find that?"

Elizabeth: "I'm still rubbing. Fuck. How"

Me: "Should I send him a friend request?"

Elizabeth: "Please... no. Fuck. I'll do anything"

Me: "Anything?"

Elizabeth: "Fuck. I wanna cum so bad"

Me: "Do you know what I have planned for you, Elizabeth?"

Elizabeth: "What?"

Me: "Next weekend you're going to get a hotel room. And I'm going to meet you there. We're going to have a nice, friendly chat about how to keep your dirty pictures private"

Elizabeth: "Oh God. Oh fuck. Please just let me cum"

Me: "Are you going to get that hotel room?"

Me: "Elizabeth?"

Me: "Hello?"

I checked and she was no longer online. Had I been blocked? Would she be back? I saved everything I had into a folder titled "Elizabeth" and waited.

Months passed and she never came back to that platform. But around 6 months after she disappeared, I saw a familiar looking ad on r/blackmailers. A post from a woman in Chatanooga with that same FirstnameLastname101 username. This had to be her. I slid into her DMs.

Me: "Hello Elizabeth. Do you remember me?:

Elizabeth: "I don't think so. Should I?"

Me: "We had such a pleasant conversation a few months ago. I'm surprised you don't remember."

Elizabeth: "What did we talk about?"

Me: "You sent me nice pictures that I still have. They're a little bit slutty, but I enjoyed them. And we talked about your father."

Elizabeth: "Oh God. How did you find me?"

Me: "You're not hard to find, Elizabeth"

Elizabeth: "Oh God. Did you add him as a friend? Did you message him?"

Me: "I thought about it. Then I decided I would give you another chance to do the right thing"

Elizabeth: "What do you mean?"

Me: "The thing we talked about"

Elizabeth: "I don't remember. What did we talk about?"

Me: "We were going to meet. We were going to talk in-person. That seems like the best way to keep your dirty pictures safe"

Elizabeth: "What pictures do you have?"

I sent her what I had. I also sent the screenshots of her father's Facebook page.

Elizabeth: "Fuck. You really kept those this whole time"

Me: "I knew you'd be back. I knew a part of you wanted this"

Elizabeth: "This is fucking with my head"

Me: "Do you remember the safeword, Elizabeth?"

Elizabeth: "We had a safeword?"

Me: "You say 'RED' and this all ends. Or you say nothing and I get what I want."

She was silent for a while.

Elizabeth: "What happens if I meet you in the hotel room"

Me: "We talk about how to keep your information safe. I may need some convincing, but I think we will come to an arrangement"

Elizabeth: "Oh God. I've soaked through my panties"

Me: "Are you rubbing?"

Elizabeth: "You would make me fuck you, wouldn't you"

Me: "Do I seem like the kind of man who would take advantage of a helpless, vulnerable woman?"

She was silent for a minute.

Elizabeth: "If I say 'RED' will you delete the pictures?"

Me: "Yes"

Elizabeth: "And you'll never contact my father?"

Me: "Yes, that is how this works."

Elizabeth: "RED."

Me: "All right. That's that. I'll delete everything. I'm curious though, did you just cum?"

Elizabeth: "Yes."

Me: "Sounds like you really needed it."

Elizabeth: "...yes. Thank you. Just delete what you have"

I deleted the folder

Me: "It's done"

Elizabeth: "Thank you"

Me: "Enjoy the rest of your night"

No reply. I checked... she had blocked me again.

The moral of the story is: Never forget your safeword, and if you're a CNC Dom, be sure to remind your silly, forgetful sub about the safeword.

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I will completely control every aspect of your life and any decisions you would normally make would be made by me. You will have rules and be expected to follow them at all times. I will control your whole life everything from cameras to cyberdom to train you into my perfect slut .

You will be blackmailed into disgusting and degrading tasks without mercy or pity and punishments for disobeying will be worse. I will listen to your kinks but understand that your primary purpose will be to serve me.

If interested Dm me with ASL

(Mainly looking for TF or FB but F will be welcome but specify)

Hi, im here again.. im looking for someone to have a chat first of all. I hate when someone breaka into my dms and asks for nudes upfront, i have them dont worry i made sure i took a lot of compromising pics yesterday night when i was home alone and top slut mood.

Anyway im into feminization, sissy related stuff, blackmail ofc, humiliation and a lil of anal play(?). Limits are my family that lives with me and sometimes makes hard compleating some tasks and ofc i do work so.. imblooking for someone that comprehends that i have a life apart from this kink ahah

I do not tolerate illegal stuff, scat, piss and extreme pain as well

18+ only please hit me up ;)

Greetings,

After quite a few attempt I have to accept that the dichotomy of the blackmail kink causes me troubles in finding victims partners. For other kinks I usually go for 10~15 minutes of talk with people, double checking their kinks, limits and then moving into more fun activities.

But considering the risk associated with this one, I often want to go more in depth and end up talking more about safety for 30 min than anything. But not doing it feels unfair and dangerous to the people I play with. This result in quite often both parties getting bored and the excitement dying down.

I believe this is all very important to do properly, but I struggle to find a balance between making my future victim comfortable enough and keeping her excited.

To those of you that have had success with this kink, how do you usually handle the onboarding?

Hi my name is Ashley. I'm 23 year old trans puppygirl on Estrogen with voice training done.

I am currently very vulnerable and unstable. I just went through a bad breakup after my online partner visited irl. So now I have a ton of extra time to spend, plus I'm lonely and easy to take advantage of. I have always found manipulation and coercion incredibly hot, however my mental guard has been quite high. Currently it feels like that guard is just fully lowered and I can't help but fantasize someone abusing that. I cannot help but crave stupidly mean things happening to me and being people cruel. For some reason I'm just an absolute sucker for wild people and villains.

I'm not that much into sex, but I absolutely adore kink and there's only very few things I'm not into. Kink is a big part of my life and I spend a lot of time thinking or talking about it to other people.

For blackmail, I tend to prefer the covert style where you gradually get stuff and then spring it on me without me expecting it. I find being forced in that kind of way stupidly hot.

I'm either a huge service sub or the biggest(apparently cutest too) brat. It all depends on my current mood and what buttons you push. If you don't like me being a brat all you need to do is put me in my place 🤭

My DM's are very open~

I've always enjoyed being the dominant one. I'm a sadist, and I love the idea of humiliating and belittling someone, training them into becoming the perfect bitch for me. I love the thought of taking photos of you serving and worshipping me, then teasing you with them whenever you're tempted to disobey.

I have a few posts up if you'd like to see what l'm about. I'm tall, Black, and a bit of a nerd. I enjoy cooking, I love food, and l'm also a massive pervert.

That said, when it comes to more extreme kinks like blackmail I'm only interested in a friends with benefits dynamic. Trust, mutual respect, clear communication, and genuinely enjoying each other's company matter just as much as the kink itself.

If you're in the UK and think we'd get along, send me a DM.

Edit: no married men or people in romantic relationships I unfortunately have morals and it doesn’t align with what I’m looking for.

I was a blackmail dom for ab 2 years off and on a while back with many failures but enough amazing successes to keep myself into it. I took a break and now im ready to give things another go. Before i start i was hoping to ask a few subs here a few questions.

\- What would be your ideal online blackmail dynamic? ( be as realistic or unrealistic as you want)

\- do you prefer long term dynamics or shorter limited sessions/ timelimits.

\- and lastly does the idea of being watched live turn you on more than being watch on a sent video.

I appreciate all responses and have a great day.

I've been away from the D/s scene for a while, but the interest never faded. Now I'm ready to dive back in and explore it properly again. My experience is mainly with online dynamics, and I'm particularly interested in consensual blackmail fantasies and power exchange. I'm looking for people who enjoy building genuine dynamics rather than rushing into things. If you're experienced and have advice to share, I'm all ears. If you're curious, adventurous, and interested in exploring this kink together, don't hesitate to message me. Let's see where the dynamic takes us.

Hey there babies, I'm looking for someone (18-25) into abdl and blackmail that wants to embrace being treated like a little at all times as much as possible. Want to forcefully regress you and keep you padded in thick diapers 24/7 and unpotty train you. I've had a couple littles before that eventually had baby monitors/cameras in their rooms so that I could monitor them and make sure they're always padded and behaving. Need you to be okay with fully using your diapers and sending pictures and information if you want this to work out! Interested in tpe, parental controls, and humiliation too of course. Bonus points if you're a femboy or transfemme into forced feminisation and chastity too! Message me if you'd be interested in something like this potty pants :p

I'm looking for sluts/slaves that obev and are loyal. I prefer skinny, fit or muscular. Max 30 years old please.

I want to take full control over you (TPE) 24/7 if possible. I like to have 24/7 access to my slave and be able to know what they are doing and give them tasks or make them do stuff whenever. Be able to give me pics and remember that (almost) everything will be saved and use again with blackmail if you try to escape.

If you message me tell me your age, kinks, imits and I prefer a photo of your body

Hello!

I’m Ella V. And Im new(ish) to blackmail! Been stocking these subs for a long while but never took the leap. But not to long ago I did! And one unhealthy thing about me is I like things to move FAST. Perhaps far too fast for my own good but that’s the thrill!!!

And so my Mistress has ordered me to hear some of the “horrors” of what I’ve gotten myself into. And what is to come. I’ve read plenty of the success story’s (more than I read in school)… And I do get off on it but more importantly I find peace in it… I’m not to sure why but I do! Perhaps it’s the fact that I don’t necessarily have to think for myself, or the fact that I can live on the edge every step to where I can live life however I want now. Many possibilities. And I know you guys understand that feeling! Even as doms!

I’m open to hearing any and all! In the comments or if needed my DMs are very wide open!

Hey everyone! 💞

I am looking for a dynamic in which we are on the same wavelength, craving the same wonderful asynchronous dynamic. Even though this post is flagged as "Seeking Victim", I am also open to taking the role of the Victim, if our vibes match up.

Things that I am looking for: Psychological torment and control of everyday life through consensual blackmail. Given that I am asexual, this shouldn't be a sexual dynamic for starters.

Even though I am open for dynamics of all genders, I do prefer a female connection.

If this sounds like you want to connect to learn more, my DMs are wide open for you! 🥰

Requests from Germany will be prioritized in my responses.

See you around! :)

Hiii, you can addressed me a Miss.

Im looking for a girl or guy to blackmail and own for short or long term fun.

Ive done this in the past with a few people and usually have alot of fun with it.

My kink list is really broad so if your just looking for certain or specific tasks during this, dont apply.

Also, I get loads of msgs, dont bother me if your not serious

I’m seeking true, obedient blackmailed slaves ready for absolute ownership.

I don’t play at dominance — I demand total control. Your body, your mind, and your sexuality will belong to me completely. I will control your every move, your thoughts, and your pleasure. Chastity devices will lock away what no longer belongs to you. I love using toys, plugs, and GPS trackers so I always know where you are and can use you however and whenever I wish.

Humiliation is one of my greatest pleasures — both in private and in public. I will break you down and remake you as my perfect, devoted slave. Once you’re mine, escape becomes nearly impossible.

Many slaves message me, but most are just fantasizing and waste my time. If you’re serious, prove it. To apply, send a clear photo of your bare feet with “Master.bxlbe” written on the sole. Only then will I consider your application.

At the end of your message, you must write the word dungeon so I know you’ve read and understood everything.

My web is waiting. Step in… if you dare.

There is nothing in the world liked being blackmailed. It is an all consuming feeling. The level of control, desperation. It gets me off like nothing else. The first time a guy used pictures he had of me to do stuff and get me to continue serving him rally showed me what true control and ownership feels like. Loosing the ability to say no. Thera is nothing like that in the world.

You think you’re anonymous. You think that one little photo you sent me is harmless. But the truth is, you’re only one slip away from being found. One picture is all it takes for me to start pulling on the threads of your life until everything unravels.

How this works:

We’ll start simple. We discuss the particulars—your limits, your safewords, and your kinks—just so we’re on the same page before the real thing begins. Then, the hunt starts.

1. You provide me with a picture of yourself. Nothing crazy—just a normal picture, something you’d post on Instagram.

2. That’s where I come in. I use that picture to find things about you. Your name, the location of the photo, your other socials, or whatever else is out there. You’d be surprised how much I can find with just one image.

3. If I find the right info—if my guess about where you are or who you are is correct—then I get to ask for something more. Something of my choosing.

4. We continue the blackmail in this fashion. As I guess more and you reveal more, the gap between us closes. Soon enough, I have all the material I need.

5. Then, the shift happens. The guessing stops. I stop asking and I start ordering. You’ll realize exactly what situation you’ve put yourself in: you are now at my mercy.

The Rewiring:

Once you're under my thumb, the real training begins. I don't just want your obedience; I want to rewrite how your mind works. Through a blend of textual hypnosis and behavioral conditioning, I will install anchors in your psyche that make you crave my voice. You'll find yourself chasing a specific high—an intense, addictive rush of submission—that you can only get from me. By the time we're done, you won't just obey because you have to; you'll obey because you can't help yourself.

Who I’m looking for:

I’m selective. I typically go through the girls who apply and choose only one or two. I’m looking for:

• Girls between 18 and 27.

• Someone naive, someone who trusts too easily.

• Someone who has been abused before and craves that feeling again, but wants the safety of a controlled environment.

• Those who are cheating or doing this behind their partner's back.

• Anyone who wants to explore the thrill of blackmail and discover exactly what they’d do under total control.

• If you have a taste for TPE, CNC, humiliation, degradation, pain, or a strict Master/Slave dynamic, you're exactly what I'm looking for.

The Terms:

If you think you're cute and you can be a good girl, prove it. This is the only way in. If you aren't willing to provide pics and vids as part of your submission, don't waste my time. Only those ready to be mindless slaves need apply.

To apply, DM me the following:

1. Your age.

2. A kink you’re ashamed to admit.

3. The last time you obeyed someone without even thinking.

Or comment below if you're unable to DM.

Hey there! I’m an 19 year old female Scandinavian domme. I’m looking for another slave to blackmail into serving me. I have a bunch of kinks, but I’ll name a few here: blackmail, TPE, orgasm control, pain, nipple torture, edging and denial. I have a bunch more, but we can get into that in dms. I will of course adjust to play to your kinks and limits as well. I can be quite cruel at times, so be warned! I’m going to make sure you know who’s in control. If you’re interested, send me a message with your ASL as well as your kinks and limits. I look forward to taking control of you😈

Hello subs. Send me your age, kinks, and limits so we can get started on playing. I will give you a safe word to use if you want to stop playing. My kinks are blackmail, domination, edging, orgasm control, clothing control, bondage, exhibition, humiliation, and more. Limits are scat, blood, family, and illegal.

Do you have any taboo fantasies you dream of a sub doing but can't find anyone? Let me help :)) I'd love to hear the awful taboo things you'd like me to do/would force me to do. I'm open to pretty much anything and all i care about is pleasing you regardless of how awful it may be. Interested in possibly doing a blackmail dynamic using the proof sent. Let me serve you. My limits are face pics, body writing, watersports