r/Blackmailers

I’m looking for a submissive who actually wants to get caught. Not tasks. Not a cute little scene you can close out of when you get bored. I want someone who will give me enough that walking away starts to feel impossible.

I don’t want someone who’s unsure of what they want. I don’t want someone who needs to be chased around for a week before they send anything real. I want the kind of control that sits in the back of your head. Secrets. Proof. Habits. Pictures. Videos. Pieces of your life you can’t just take back because the you’re “not feeling it that day.” You’ll know I have your blackmail material and the part that scares you.

I like watching someone realize they already went too far. You’ll tell me what you’re scared of losing. You’ll send what I ask for when I ask for it. To beg for my attention, to beg to humiliate yourself for me. I want to brainwash you so that our rules are in places even when i’m not there to verify. attention. If you vanish, I’m not going to send you a soft little “hey where’d you go.” You’ll just sit there knowing I still have what you gave me.

I’m looking for someone who is actually submissive when it stops being fun for a minute. Talkative. Specific. Not the person who writes “dm me daddy” and gives me oke word answers, Nor do i need someone thats not sure about this.

If that makes your stomach drop and you still want it, message me properly. Age. What you’re offering. What you’re afraid of. Why you want this. Please be specific. One-liners get ignored. If you can’t write more than three sentences about yourself, don’t bother. Pictures help

As the title says.

Looking for something specific, playful, and fun.

Are you tired of being you? Do you want to be transformed into something different? Dorkier, more submissive? 🤓

Looking for a sub that wants to experiment with giving up control of his identity in a unique way. Maybe you're subtle, casual, not super nerdy, but you want to be in someone else's control. That's where nerdification comes in. Slowly your clothes get replaced: those jeans become khakis, those tees become button-ups, those boxers become tighty whities. Your hobbies are forced from sports to puzzles and reading. You start begging for tasks, or "homework."

Buying new clothes gives you the experience of financial domination while still keeping your purchases. You'll get increasingly more humiliated as your everyday uniform changes. Before you know it, you're starting each day with a wedgie and a wet willy. And you'll be trying not too get too excited about it.

Sounds like a submissive ifestyle play you want to try? Message with any questions you have or interests of your own**. Send more than just your age and location. Act interested if you truly want to be controlled**.

Otherr kinks include:

* blackmail

* chastity caging / keyholding

* bullying/ wedgies/ swirlies

* degradation / humiliation

* cnc

* ball busting / cbt

* pet play / furry treatment

* chores / houseboy expectations

* uniforms

* manners (yes sir, thank you sir)

* and more.

This is blackmail, ownership, and transformation. You will become an owned nerd, a toy. It means providing damning proof of tasks. You must not be scared to show face. Otherwise what is there to blackmail you with and hold you accountable haha. If you're going to ghost or delete your account once you get nervous, don't bother messaging.

Looking forward to hearing from the sub interested in handing his life over to become a new and dorkier version of himself 😏

I want a sub to feel completely owned and self entrapped where blackmail itself is the fear driving your submission. I’m hoping for a masc himbo who loves the idea of me knowing everything about them and wants me to. I’m looking for guys who are ready to entrap themselves into being used as my own secret toy. I’m going to make you vulnerable and you’re going to love every minute of it. The more information you’re willing to give the more fun I’ll have 😊

Bonus points if you’re a Canadian college/uni guy 🤷🏻‍♂️

Hi! I’m 26F and looking for someone who gets off on fear and power and causing pain to blackmail me into submission. I want to be given tasks and rules and punishments, I want to hand over control with no choice in the matter.
I am married, and due to limits within that dynamic I cannot show my face or give any identifying information, this must stay completely anonymous.
I am plus size so if that is a problem please do not dm me.
Amount of time should be predetermined, but open to extending if it’s a good match.
Kinks: nipple/tit torture, orgasm control, cnc, blackmail, humiliation, etc
Limits: face/identifying info, scat, gore, anything illegal, and any permanent harm
If you think we would be a good match please dm me

I’m interested in being your mistress. Cold and simple, while slyly (and mistakenly gently) accumulating your pictures and videos, ready to pleasure, punish and blackmail you.

I’m willing to take you to the edge multiple times and take control over your life in every aspect of it. I want you to have to beg, to be desperate and do anything to avoid your intimacy becoming public.

If this interests you, send me your ASL and a short description of yourself (SFW and NSFW)

An initial picture is welcome, and any initial messages without any effort will be ignored.

And don’t make me wait, I don’t like waiting.

I am a large man. As in fat. I am looking for someone to take full control and blackmail me mercilessly into total submission and eventually permanent feminization. I crave the feeling of helplessness that blackmail brings. The feeling of being trapped with no escape. I have tried to run for too long, tried to suppress these urges. But they always come back stronger then ever, so I need to find someone who can help me explore this safely, but still give me the real feeling of helplessness.

I need to feel like cornered prey

I also would love to be your goonslave. Dropping everything to pump when I'm told. To what im told. For as long as I'm told. Right before being denied and locked in chastity

Honestly been super depressed recently and looking for guys I can torment/make fun of/use for my amusement.

I'm not going to trick you or make you do anything. But you're going to give into the temptation and send me things, desperate to be seen. And the more you send, the more you'll be convinced to do.

Naked stripteases, sending ID, covering yourself in oil, stretching out your ass, getting naked in public, sucking anon cock on camera...

Straight/bicurious guys especially welcome. Strong preference for in shape guys.

DM me with age, location and ask to send a picture.

I'm waiting. Can't wait to blackmail you for my amusement ;)

I'm looking for someone to force me to send them my completely naked pic and threaten me with exposure. I will send pics of myself nude as blackmail material.

I'm too nervous to show my whole face but i love showing my pics off to strangers online

(pretend to) blackmail me; force me to send you more naked pics of me or you'll expose me make me nervous and horny and sending more. I just want to experience that feeling of getting exposed (Smth like Safe blackmail).

DMs open for subs and slaves which wants to serve and who wants to get controlled and get tasks, introduce yourself whit a body pic and what you looking for and whit information that could be play a role, looking through a long term dynamic.

about me: I am a 19 year old woman who has been in the femdom scene since I was 17 and really enjoy taking control of submissive men, not only in the sexual area but also in everyday life

Kinks: Cbt, Ballbusting, Edging, Begging, Anal, Humiliation, Degradation, Bdsm, JOl, blackmail, underwear

Limits: scat, gore, suspension,
major, blood play.

Location: Germany, Hamburg

about you: age 18-30, don't be fat and don't be very hairy (i'll make exceptions if the rest will fit)

if you don't send pics please don't dm or if you won't send pics at the beginning, i will NEVER force you to send a face pic, ballbusting, cbt, anal, and all these stuffs don't has to be your kinks i'm open whit all kinks and preferences SO DONT WORRY! don't accept dm requests whit less then 5 words.

I never blackmailed or threatened any of my slaves/subs of actual exposure before, it was only a consensual dynamic where even when I hold so much power and information or photos/videos about them that can possibly ruin their life i kept it for myself. A lot of people don't like being actually exposed and I respect your limits.

So I'm here looking for the one that will be open to start this dynamic with actual blackmail rather than consent (I'll respect your limits if you tell me about them).

What I'm looking for is for someone to open the conversation with "hiI'd like to serve you as my master here something embarrassing about me" or something like that, you tell me your name/age and you send me a photo of yourself, you can also say your limits.

But for the sake of my pleasure I want to start the conversation with "ohh tell me more about you or I'll expose this photo" or "do this task for me" and then after the first threat/blackmail we can talk more about your limits/safe word and if you have any questions for me I'll answer them.

But keep in mind even, I'll always have the upper hand and the power over you.Tho I'm always open to be a friend outside this roleplay, if you have a problem or you wanna talk about different stuff than kink I'm open to that.

As for me, I'm open to pretty much anything.

My limits: blood/scat/vomit.

Hello there, I’m looking for someone I can blackmail into being an obedient little slut who will surrender themselves to me and carry out my bidding, I want someone I can be cruel to, humiliate and degrade, I am very kinky so come prepared , pics and vids are a MUST, I’m very visually stimulated so it is important for me to have that as part of the arrangement.

I want to control every facet of your life from what you wear, how often you cum, if you cum. Surrender yourself and Become my slave

You will feel suffocated, like there’s no escape.

Instead of a safe word I operate on the life system
Green=good
Yellow=slow down
Red= stop immediately

Kinks:

Blackmail, humiliation, degradation, cbt/clit torture, nipple torture, wax play, cnc, sph, impact play, anal, ass worship, S&M, punishing and more

Limits:

Underage, beast, vomit, findom

Dm me with kinks, limits, and asl

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Hi, I am a young dom looking for more people to discover myself with.

As for what Ive lived I know that Im a dom, a pretty sadistic one on that matter, and when I got to know of consentual blackmail I was so turned on by the idea of basically owning someone and holding them that I couldnt think of anything else.

Im very open minded and up for everything, but I love chastity and humiliation so I hope you are also into it.

And honestly, the older you are the hotter I think it is

I wont answer to simple just "Hello" messages, be better

hi hi I love control, and I'd love to control you through blackmail. I can be nice or mean about it. I don't need people who only want one night. I'm looking for people who are actually into this at every step of the way…. not just the idea of it. This is my first time doing this in a while, I’ve been in school and haven’t had the time… so I will be posting more of what I’m into shortly… :3

Write me a real message. Beg for my attention

Looking for a depraved blackmailer whose creativity knows no bounds and every time I'm horny he'll strike into me, tearing away more and more information out of me to own me. I want someone creative and patient, sadistic, and ruthless. A single mistake to hit post permanently changed my life, I was no longer free... My identity, my dignity and life was soo fragile I never realised.

Actions have dire consequences and it's time I learned that the hardest way possible, when one door closes, another locks tighter until I give up fighting.

Hello everyone! Im genuinely curious to know how many if you here prefer to hunt or be hunted vs. simply handing over or having all of the useful information handed over to you willingly?

In my opinion there can be a fine line here between crossing the line though. I guess as far as the "hunted" aspect goes it also borders cnc play quite a bit. In which that would need to be agreed to from the start.

Also, if you do go with the "hunt" option, how do you know youre dealing with someone genuine who wont cross boundaries or go overboard?

As far as giving up, ir having the information provided to you, this serms like a safer route in a sense to know that the blackmailer is genuine etc.

I personally enjoy the idea of being hunted more so than handing information over but after all, that is just an idea.

Anyway, thats my question and i hope to hear lots of answers! Thank you for reading!

Blackmail has always turned me on, if you think you can handle being my new toy then message me your asl and kinks. I'm into cum control, chastity, cbt, tpe, humiliation, all things femdom. Always open to exploring so don't be shy. You'll become my personal pornstar, recording yourself doing whatever I say.

Blackmail me and scare me! I need to be EXCITED for once and blackmail is the ONLY thing that’s ever actually excited me and made me feel a REAL rush! I want to see just how crazy you can get with my pics and my personal information. I did this one other time years ago and ended up having to drive over 6 hours one way 3 times a week to sleep with the man blackmailing me ;)

Your parents think they raised a good boy. They have no idea their son is online listening to a superior Indian man, selling himself out, filming every humiliation, and getting hard at the thought of being blackmailed for the rest of his life.

I’m going to make you my slave boy. You’ll list yourself on the apps, go meet men, and record full-face porn for me. You’ll learn the angles and positions the way I want them - I’m picky as hell about camera work.

My favorite part: making you film yourself getting farted on by random guys and then burying your nose in their asses for minutes straight, sniffing like a desperate whore. I’ll push you into shit you’ve never even imagined.

I will coach you remotely on a second screen sniffing my digital farts until the tapes look right. Once I’ve got the videos, you’re trapped. You’ll keep doing whatever I say for as long as I feel like using you.

I’m also into funeral/casket roleplay, breathplay, nose fetish play. It doesn’t matter if you aren’t into them, I will coach you to be into them all as long as you co-operate.

If this already has you hard, you need me. DM me. Introduce yourself.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​ You can also check my previous posts to know more about what I’m looking for.

Heya everyone! 💞

I'm hoping to find a likeminded soul, who is interested in sadistically blackmailing me without mercy. I want to be broken down into a crying puddle of mess on the cold floor 24/7 with no way out. This is not for the light hearted - I need a sincerely diabolical tormentor.

That being said, this post is not meant for everyone. I am looking for psychological trauma and emotional torture. Given that I am asexual, I am not looking for your shallow everyday shinanigans. Instead, I am looking for someone, who is seriously interested to understand my weaknesses and to get into the deepest corners of my mind, to use every single of my own shadows against me. This is nothing short term. ⛓️

If you would like to try inducing psychological torture and mental destruction on my sensitive mind, I would love to hear from you! 💗

You clicked on this post because you look for someone special.

Someone who takes your daily life into his hands and gives you rules, rituals and something lasting. Something you can rely on. Something that gives you a fixed point in this mess of reality.

I can be that „something“ but everything comes with a price. That price is to be blackmailed into my toy. Are you willing to pay?

The entry is a message with something about yourself, your kinks and wishes and what you will give me to let the pressure build up and you heart beat faster when I order you around.

I’m not looking for male or people in transformation right now. Please be older than 21 and younger than 45 years.
And I’m explicitly not looking for a short term solution or a RL relationship.

Go on, take the first step, victim.
I promise a safe and secure environment and will always take care of your data and consent.