r/Blackmailers

26 [F4A] #Online Looking for a blackmailer

Ive been lurking around this sub for a while now, but finally got the courage to post. Im looking to be blackmailed, to be forced to do things i wouldnt in a normal relationship. Im looking for humiliation, regret, shame... I get so turned on by the feeling of loosing control and the shame of how much deeper and deeper i go

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u/Fit_Window9847 — 3 hours ago

27 [TF4A] - #US - I want to be forced/coerced into being a pornstar

Hi! This is probably the manifestation of my trauma, and I’m not sure if I will regret this, but I'm looking for someone who'd like to force and blackmail me into being their personal pornstar. I want you to make me send you degrading pics and videos, and threaten to share them online if I ever disobey.

Kinks: CNC, feminization, bimbofication, blackmail, exposure, bondage, pet play, humiliation, degradation, choking, slave training

Limits: scat, piss, vomit

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u/HornyAndDegraded — 6 hours ago

29 [T4S] Blackmail, Feminization, Objectification

Im naughty. Naughty in the head that is. I don’t even get turned on from tasks, pictures, humiliation or anything of that sort. What really makes me act up is that moment when control is transferred, power is exchanged, and the sub knows they are being blackmailed. With no way out. For real.

I know all you lurkers reading this right now love that feeling too hehe. You love it. Crave it. You are addicted to it. And like a drug addiction, once you start it’s so hard to stop…and nothing ever feels the same after. Right now you are leaking just thinking about what it would be like to loose control….to not know what is coming next….to have to listen to every command and read every single word I write. I’ll have you hanging on every word. Wishing I would stop but secretly hoping it never ends.

I want to be that drug. I’ll have you hanging onto my every word. Leaking when you see my message. Salivating in anticipation of my command. Subconsciously knowing that after you press send, I’m going to systematically take away any last little piece of your “masculinity” left. The best part about it is that we are both going to love it 💞.

I’m serious. Deadly serious. Don’t approach if you are not ready. I don’t take beginners either so please be thoughtful of my sanity. And I require real blackmail material as well. So don’t think you can get away with a fake girlfriend’s number or a friends social media. We both know you are a virgin sweetie 🤭

I can’t wait to see your message. If you read this far make sure to start your message with the words “beginning of the end”.

Toodles!!

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u/Small_Switch_3723 — 14 hours ago

29 [M4F] Sissy Wannabe

Hi there,

I am 29 years old and seeking a domme to blackmail me. I love the feeling of losing control and being submissive. During the day, I try to stand my ground, but really, the thought is doing as I am told is what I crave. I love having no choice but to say yes- even if it pushes my limits. I am looking for someone to own and make me into a sissy

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u/CDSisBoi — 17 hours ago

19 [M4A] haiii femboy here looking for a master/mistress to submit to and do tasks for blackmail

haiii femboy here looking for a master/mistress to submit to and do tasks I prefer women and femboys if possible don't have any toys but do have a chastity cage, my top kinks are CBT petplay feet armpits musk censorship and breath play, am a femboy with a bubble butt am skinny and my dick is 7 inches long, blackmail

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u/Slow_Job_6217 — 20 hours ago

29[F4M] #online Looking for another toy who wants to experience feargasms??

Hello there!!

**DISCLAIMER** - Please make sure to read everything carefully till the very end. If your DM doesn't meet the minimum requirements you won't be hearing from me.

I'm pretty sure the title says it all....but u people interpret it the wrong way...Earlier I used to think u know why you're here, why you clicked this post, how much u crave for the rush of adrenaline which make ur body shiver and heart race..But I was wrong..because u don't want any of that..u want a girl to sext/rp for that moment's pleasure....IF ANY OF THIS RESONATES WITH U, I'M URGING U TO SCOOT.

If u r still reading this, then u need to understand how serious i'm and i prefer the same from u....(so much of ranting ik ik...now comes the actual part)....I'm looking for a person who wants to be owned, humiliated, blackmailed, degraded, and won't chicken out because at that exact time u got cold feet...I am a sexual sadist, so this will be painful. Very painful. Contact at your own risk....There are some hard requirements u need to have which includes:

  • U need to be college student/married men/closeted ones/sissies.
  • Need to be very chatty and reply asap after completing u tasks
  • Having a fit/twink body type with a big wood.
  • Having no problem sending any pics, especially regarding to sending face pics.

If u think u meet these requirements, then DM me your name, gender, age, location and what you are looking for with your limits..(I didn’t write all this for lazy messages. If you DM me, put in some effort too)

A quick note for anyone stepping forward.....Yes, I enjoy extreme play, but I’m not here to weaponize it, expose you, or ruin lives.

PS: All of ur kinks and limits are discussed before hand and a safeword is provided to u.

PPS: This isn’t for beginners.....proceed with caution..I don't teach or make u understand how this whole dynamic works.

Don’t waste your time or mine...PLEASE I'M URGING YOU

XOXO

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u/cherrylady_M — 1 day ago

18 [M4A] Complete and total domination

Hello there,

I am a young dom looking for an older sub to blackmail until I control you completely.

I am into all kinks, mostly humiliation and I want you to be warned that I dont take disrespect lightly.

About our dynamic: I say, you follow! You will be my toy for me to use and abuse.

Im talking 24/7 domination, I want you to have nightmares about me

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u/RolePlayEnthusiast_ — 23 hours ago

25 [M4M] Straight wants to be forced to become a gay toe and cock sucker

I am a 25 year old straight boy from germany. No experience with men. I am looking for a sadistic dom who would like to ruin me into a desperate sub for cock and feet. My fantasy is beeing trapped and trained. Force me to stay barefoot, lock me in chastity, make me expose my body to horny men and push me o to grindr, sniffies etc to lick dirty feet, suck random cocks or get fucked.

I have a variety of toys. Willing to show proof images/videos and also open to gradually transition towards blackmail to prevent chickening out. I would like to get to know the potential dol before showing face/identity though.

Kinks: Feet, chastity, forced bi, CNC, humiliation, anal, porn control,…

Limits: Permanent harm, scat, blood, anything intervening with my job

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u/LockedFootBoy_1 — 23 hours ago

26 [f4m] #online | blackmail/expose/toxic relationship

F 26 submissive. 5’3, 120 lbs, long brunette hair, olive skin, brown eyes, DD, skinny/curvy. Looking for someone who like petplay, tpe, humiliation, blackmail, exposure, exhibition, impact, cnc, bondage, ddlg, watersports, hucow, praise, orgasm control, freeuse, breeding.

Excited to try exposure/ blackmail, please reach out!

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u/Similar_Ad_6412 — 1 day ago

18 [F4M] looking for a toxic man

Hello there! I’m looking a for a toxic man to blackmail me and show me the world his way. I don’t mind if he isolates me from my friends,family. Makes me cry. Manipulate me. Make me dependent on you. I would also like if you gaslit me like we’ve know each other or something like that. If you guilt trip me like that I try to make it up to you asap (I’m a people pleaser). I would prefer someone closer to my age! I also like to talk on 👻 dm me if you want to get to know me ;)

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u/Top-Presentation397 — 1 day ago

43 [F4M] you’re loneliness is expensive, isn’t it?

tell me the most irrational purchase, sacrifice, or send you’ve made or done because someone had power over your mind. i’m talking about the kind of decision you knew was embarrassing while you were doing it, but the attention, approval, or blackmail hold they had on you made it impossible to resist anyway. the more financially irresponsible, emotionally weak, or humiliating the story is, the more interested i am in hearing it.

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u/damejanedough — 1 day ago

29[M4F] - Hello lurker, i don't know who you are, but I know your pervy side is knocking. I know it's to scary even if you feel the urge. But now it's time to explore a desire. 🌹

Since I have played with many girls indulging in blackmail dynamics, I know for sure that some of you might be reading this to scare to try this thinking, “What if…?".

However, something seems to be missing. I’ve seen it before. Something you thought it wasn’t necessary.

You might have told yourself “That pervy side won’t disturb my happy relationship.” But now, after trying to repress it, that side is knocking, and you’re here to answer a question: Should I let this shade of myself pour out and satisfy that part of my personality, or should I go on repressing it.

With my limited spare time, I’m looking for something slow, constant, and subtle. Something not to pushy, this isn’t about overwhelming your life, work, or family. It’s about giving you that fear, that push, that shock. You’ll love the thrill of knowing there’s something lurking just beneath the surface.

If you’re curious, drop a message. Let’s explore this together 🌹

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u/boatdriving — 1 day ago

23 [F4M] lf someone to blackmail me

Hi, as you can see, I'm seeking for a blackmailer. This is actually my first time doing this as I was curious to explore and see where it will go. I may have a kink for getting exposed and humiliated hence why I decided to give this a chance. I'd appreciate it if someone can help me start my journey in blackmail!

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u/IcedMilkEnjoyer — 2 days ago

How do you build trust?

First, i'm a really pathetic guy into many kinks so as blackmailing, everytime i see a post it makes my heart race completely fast and my head dizzy(i get really close to shutting my brain off and sending my Infos ofc with limits and safeword) i want really want to submit to someone (can even be findom) but the fear of getting scammed into sending only money is like Holding me back.... so how do you get over this fear and build trust? Does anyone have any advice?

(And ofc i'm not stupid and i know i shouldnt trust anyone but i see many succsess starkes here about people having a good time...)

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u/OwOBauy — 2 days ago

25 [F4A] Looking for Slave to break once again

I'm mistress Sophia, no more, no less. I've grown bored again of my current slaves and looking for more slaves who wants to truly give me all the power over their lives!

I'm looking for someone who really wants to serve, and is ready to do anything to please their mistress! This will not be any part time play, you will be serving me at all times of the day any time I say! Things to note, if you love spending a very-very long time locked in chastity, love being humiliated degraded, and love listening to order, then you have come to the right place!

This blackmail will include full power swap, meaning all decisions in your life will be directed by me, and that non-negotiable, it will also conclude tasks rules and more-

If you wish to be part of my slaves and compete for just a little bit of my attention, then DM me, and do so properly. Any messages that dont have the following will be ignored: Age, country, kinks, limits, and toy collection, at a minimum. Then off course also a general presentation of who you are and why I should pick you as my slave!
+Bonus points for attached photos of you

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u/M1stressSophia — 2 days ago

25 [M4A] #Vegas - sissy looking to be used and blackmailed

\*\*"Looking for a dominant partner to ‘bully’ me into sissy life!\*\*
\*Hi everyone!\* I’m looking for someone to \*blackmail\* as a strict, dominant figure who ‘forces’ me into sissy behavior—think teasing, humiliating RP scenarios where I beg and submit.

Must be:
\- Comfortable with heavy tease/flirt dynamic.
\- Willing to keep it strictly online
\- Respectful of hard limits & safety checks!

If you’re experienced in this kind of scene and want a devoted little sissy to mess with… DM me!"\*\*

\---

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u/Suitable-Sun5344 — 1 day ago

20[M4F] Sub looking for Dom/goddess

I’m 20 years old looking for a dom/goddess to use and blackmail me( consensual of course). I’ll send anything you need from me. Please use and control me and make me completely yours to abuse and own me completely. I want to be owned and controlled and be used whenever you want and when you’re done with me you can auction me off to another goddess to use me as well.

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u/VictoryOwn1918 — 2 days ago

26 [F4M] Mommy want to use toy you for her pleasure

Hi everyone !

Mommy want to use one - two slave !

Mommy enjoying making people do tasks I’ll be honest I have tasks kink more than blackmail but I hate when people try to not do the tasks

It irritates me, I would love few good boys who don’t mind sharing video - doing tasks all our conversations will me asking you to do tasks and goon on my pics if you try to disobey me I’ll just share everything on Reddit ! Save word and limit allowed but please I don’t want pussies!

Also you need to show your face as well this not optional.

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u/MommyCat6969 — 2 days ago

32 [M4A] - Sissy slave looking for owner, blacmailers, sadistics

I’m wired differently — autistic, emotionally stunted, and intensely masochistic. My biggest sexual triggers are extreme humiliation, rejection, exposure, being mocked, and the complete destruction of my ego.

Psychology of this slave:
I get extremely excited when exposing and degrading myself, but once I cum I often panic and delete everything. This bipolar exhibitionist cycle is my biggest weakness. I desperately need an Owner who will break it and not allow me to escape my place.

I was heavily bullied and used as a human toilet during school. That trauma became my only source of attention and rewired my sexuality. Now I deeply crave being treated as less than human.

I get intensely aroused by being spoken about in third person, ignored, mocked, and constantly reminded of how worthless I am. I need continuous mindfuck, degradation, blackmail pressure, and tasks that push my shame deeper and deeper.

What I offer (virtual for now):

  • Daily reports, photos and videos
  • Cam sessions when required
  • Custom humiliation content
  • Gradual release of real personal info for blackmail
  • Full obedience and gratitude, even when I’m crying and ashamed

I’m looking for a strict, experienced Owner who enjoys molding and breaking a weak, self-sabotaging autistic sissy into their perfect toy.

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u/nezuko_o1 — 2 days ago

25[M4A] #online i am looking for a new slave to get my treatment

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So im a blackmailer since im 18 yo and im looking to own some more.

I am really strict and with rules i can be soft or hard it depends on what level of obedience you will be.

I can also be caring and mean i can be all you want it depends on you but lets get in the point i want someone who will give me all his info and be obedient and love doing it then i will transform you in a perfect slave in all types if u are a "man" dm me saying that your a little sissy if you are a "woman" dm me saying your a little fucktoy and then we will agree on rules and safe word and then we will start your new life be ready little bitch haha

LOOKING FOR SERIOUS ONLY

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u/Sea_Ideal8577 — 2 days ago