u/NightmareBaby007

Okay, I need some serious help how I am going to go about this. I had a relationship. I ghosted due to being extorted and used many other things and this man is a malignant narc and now has women pulling records. I would like to feel safe what is my best option to exit this. Do I just block and move on or should I keep it on to keep a paper trail? I have been conned out of thousands. I would just like to safely exit, I was unaware of a lot of his violent charges against women. I do have a lot people looking out for me. I just don't want this to get potentially dangerous. What do I do? where so I start? OR Keep everything on so I can keep a paper trail. He is doing typical narc smear campaign. He will do this to everyone he comes into contact with. PLEASE HELP.

Well we finally broke up. I think I am going to be broken for a long time. I am not okay. I want to thank all the wonderful women in this community for being a shoulder to cry on and lifting each other up. I have learned a lot from all of you. This is a group of strong individuals and I am endlessly thankful for you. I wish you all the absolute best and the most happiness. Thank you again for all of the support and kindness. <3 My heart hurts but I know it will eventually heal, I am in a bad bad mindset but I know it will pass.

EDIT: I am doing a tiny bit better but I was treated so poorly I am fairly certain the mental torment did something to me. I did not realize how bad it really was, now that I can reflect in silence. This was pure mental abuse and honestly bullying and extortion to an extent. I could never have anything for myself without him being jealous and trying to compete or belittle me. Everything I got he would expect me to give him money too when I got a new car he was like "you can get a new car but not help me?". Calling all of my things including my property "ours". Really unhealthy. I am learning to eat properly again because I was such a nervous wreck at all times and tensed up physically. I kinda am being triggered when I see a phone call coming I jump because I assume it would be him. I was isolated from my social life and normal interactions. Someone made me this way from a cell and I blame myself for that.

ALSO I WAS ADMITTED TO HOSPITALS FOR STRESS RELATED AND MENTAL THINGS SEVERAL TIMES. DEVELOPED A WHOLE AUTO IMMUNITY CONDITION FROM THE STRESS. Genuinely he did not care about that either. He would call them "ordeals"