Wife wants me to experience anal and watch
Looking for some insight. Recentely my wife 38F and me 38M were having a conversation after sex and she made a comment about my cum dripping out of her when she was walking. I said in response "sorry, I dont know what that feels like". She then said, we just need to find a guy to bang you so you can.
Little back story. Our sex life is pretty good. I am no stranger to ass play. Fingers, Toys, Pegging etc all I really enjoy. I have only been with women but I am a go with the flow try anything once kind of guy.
So after she said this, I was like, umm are you serious? She said she was and said ya why not, you like your ass played with I dont care if a guy bangs you, we could do it monthly if you wanted idc, I just dont want you to like him so id blindfold you or something. We would have to find some rando to do it and be safe about it. I told her I have no desire to make out with a guy or anything so dont know why the blindfold but ok.
While processing this, I asked her, "so your just going to cuck in the corner?, id want you involved" she said she would watch and may get invovled she wouldnt know if she would want to or not. So I told her, ok set it up, ill try anything once. I said my only hesistation is our dynamic changing, like she would see me different or be turned off or somehthing and she insisted she wouldnt because she knows I would probably like it and she already pegs me. I also said I wouldnt want the guy touching her as I am not comfortable with that and she said she didnt want it either.
The conversation kind of ended there.
I have been processing this and like I said, I am certainly down to try it, my fear is our relationship. Any insight or similar experiences you have had are appreciated.