u/NoPush747

Anyone else beyond frustrated? Nearly 40. Married. Wife is OK and accepting, knew before we got married. Participates when I engage but otherwise not really.

ABDL has gotten to be a decently sized portion of my life, but only in my head. Not in practice.

Conversations in the past fall on deaf ears.

Community involvement is risky for those of us with privacy concerns.

It’s not something worth changing my whole life over. It’s also depressing to not enjoy it semi regularly.

I’ve seen similar frustrations on here.

Just seems ABDL in general gives you few good options to not be isolated. Can’t tell my friends. Hard to find real ABDL people without too much risk.