Orgasming or Just Overstimulated? Help!
Ok so I (32F) am very late to the sex game. I have only started masturbating regularly recently and am not sure if I am reaching climax.
I mostly use a vibrator because I don't get much sensation off of my own fingers. After some external and internal stimulation I am experiencing multiple things: an increase in pleasure sensation to the point where it's almost unbearable, muscles twitching, internal tightening, increased discharge, and an internal "warm" feeling. Typing it out it seems to point to orgasm but I'm not sure for a few reasons:
there isn't any real crescendo at the end of it other then suddenly not really being able to feel anything down there.
my body and mind does not enter a state of relaxation or limpness like my partners have.
I would appreciate any opinions or advice. I'm a little at a loss here.