u/No_Wishbone_810

Been bottoming for a hung guy but he is on the thinner side. I wanted to ask him to add a finger or maybe two while topping me but afraid how he will react.

How would you take it?

Heard conflicting stories about this topic. Some say big toys will do it, some say fists will make you loose. I've been stretching for a while but nothing crazy big I guess.

I've worked up to almost 8" length and 2" diameter. Is that safe for daily use? I'd still like to please my tops.

I'm curious to know where the limit is for most people.

I'm 19 and like to warm up with a plug before hooking up. Some guys told me not to do this or get wierd about it. It is a bigger butt plug tho, maybe that's why.

If anyone is interested to see for themselves, I'll send you a picture of the plug. Just ask.

We are in a closed relationship and he was a virgin when I met him. When we fuck I have to go really slow and have to open him up because he is tight in the beginning. But ones he is opened up I don't feel alot.

Why is that? Am I doing something wrong? I don't jerk off and I'm not on any medications.

We've been together for a few years and we're living together. I'm bottom and he is a pretty hung top. I work from home since this year and have been playing arround with toys when being free. I convinced my bf to order a starter bad dragon dildo but it still was big. We already opened it and couldn't send it back anymore. So we "hid" it away. But my curiosity took the best of me and I started trying to use it.

I kept it a secret since my bf already wrote it off as to big for me. I've been warming up and trying to take it slowly. I was able to go half way through arround the time he asked me to try to use it on me.

He was surprised how well I was taking it and I was hoping it wouldn't slip all the way in because I was so turned on in the moment. I came as soon he was trying to push further and he was shocked how much I came.

After making me cum he became soft and wasn't in the mood anymore. He later that day asked me to stop using that toy. I asked him why, but he acted wierd. Kinda feel emberassed right now and don't want to bottom ever anymore.