my partner slapped me during sex and idk how i feel about it???
uh so my boyfriend who ive been dating for about 2 years but only recently had sex with since we’re kind of young so i didnt want to rush it, so we have consensual and established boundaries for sex, we both like it a bit rough , choking , hair pulling ,biting and all of that and recently during texting he said ‘i might slap you during sex, its not anything malicious or anything just something i do instinctively’ i was considerably taken aback but decided to try it out anyway and i still dont know how i feel about it , i dont really mind it but it doesnt particularly turn me on either. now he’s had a few sexual relationships before me and its my first one so i dont really know what to expect.
do you guys have anything that might turn him on more ? something he might like that i havent thought about or something people who’re into this stuff usually like , im sort of new to this so i have no idea.