Natural dom but curious to pegging
Hi fellow kinkers.
Me (29m) dom have always been dominant in the bedroom. I love the control, to enact and inflict plessure/torture onto my partner and keeping the pace of the session.
I love to see my playmate give in to me and push her to her subspace. She gets there really quickly when I let myself go and do what I do best (you can call it domspace if u want).
So TLDR, I get off by having control and the dynamic I/we create is perfect in that sense.
Here comes my problem.
Lately I have not been able to shake the curiosity of anal stimulation and/or getting pegged. Something about the taboo makes me crave it and I am curious about the feeling of it.
My problem in this exact scenario is 2 things:
1, the loss of my dom image and even though I'm certainly dom leaning/oriented I fear something will change in the dynamic once I give in to this urge.
- I hate losing control and not being in control of the situation. It gives me anxiety and makes me uncomfortable not knowing what is gonna happen.
Does anyone have experience, suggestions or even similar problems like mine? I'm curious whats your take on it and give me prime examples to get this out of my head or give in :)
Kind regards and thanks for reading!