u/Noty_Fit_15

Trying to seek better understanding of this and why someone would be attracted to dynamics of it, i stumbled upon a very good read in manga section - Nana to Karou
Writers have gone in depth into philosophy of bdsm, attaching meaning to things i would have never imagined. In itself, it is overwhelmingly descriptive tale of bdsm play shown through initially 2 characters exploring different things.
It’s a difficult yet fulfilling read that helped me look at this as some kind of expression of art or desires.
Any suggestions/references that have impacted you significantly?