r/RedditBDSM

Looking for videos, workshop or trainers for light spanking, flogging play with my wife?

Ever heard of "the desire of the D is for the s, the desire of the s is for the desire of the D". What are your views? How do you see this being related to peoplepleasing? And what kind of Dom would instead (or also) desire the desire of the sub?

(We're beyond gender, but if you want the original formulation, replace D with "man" and s with "woman")

Hello you gorgeous people,

I don't mind that people are playing sportsball. I just wish they'd shut up about it.

Everyone I know, had a shitty week last week. Which, unfortunately, makes me the common factor! 🤣
(I'm aware some souls feel self-deprecating humour is dangerous. . . not to me. Due to my British sensitivities, this comment is nothing more than a silly joke. 💜)

boring: Do you piss in the shower?

blaring: Do you play any kinky games? Do you know of any? Tell us what and how, please.

That's it from me. Enjoy what's left of the weekend. Try to do terrible things to lovely people.

T. x

Hello me old loves,

I have a long held interest with gags. I've spoken previously how I love drool, and the level of control gags offer. But I've never tried mouth packing.

I'd like to hear about your experiences, tips, and knowledge.

Hi, i hope it is okay if i ask this here, if not sorry about that. (Englisch is not my first languages, i hope my question is clear)

I am looking for someone that wants to draw a erotica picture of me in a certain position. I do NOT have a reference picture of myself but i hope i can discribe it good enough for you. I doesnt have to be fully looking like me just kinda have to have the same features

I want to use it as a fetlife profile picture cause im not comfortabel sharing photos online but do want something that kinda looks like me. Because of this it has to be able to be used online

I wont be sharing pictures of me so i understand if it doesnt look exactly like me.

No idea what something like this Cost money wise but im open to to talk about it.

In a future session I want to try something new with my partner, something fun and maybe with some humor.

This is where I came up with:

• Tie my partner in a strict Hogtie or Tengu bondage (This is something we have done a lot of times)
• Start some sort of dice game where my partner has to roll the dice by taking the dice in the mouth and spitting them out (This is the new element and can be some fun).

But what kind of dice game is still something undecided, as it should be an easy and not too long dice game (And still oooking for ideas for this)

I asked AI for some ideas and two of those seem quite fitting:

• The Point Race - The goal is to roll (and remember/count) points in total withing a set amount of time, rolling a 1 will set the collected points back to 0 and rolling a dice outside the play area will be some sort of puunishment (Not getting the pints within the time will also result is some punishment)
• Countdown - Start with a certain amount of points and roll them exacly to 0 when going over the target start over at 20 and receive some sort of punishment

I am looking for more ideas for such a dice game, I do not need any punishment ideas that is something I am very familiar with.