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Flair on a Friday
Hello you,
If you fancy a bit of personal flair, drop a response to this post. Spell out what you'd like. Be a little bit patient, and I'll get back to you.
Thank you.
u/TeaAitch — 5 days ago
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Mouth packing
Hello me old loves,
I have a long held interest with gags. I've spoken previously how I love drool, and the level of control gags offer. But I've never tried mouth packing.
I'd like to hear about your experiences, tips, and knowledge.
u/TeaAitch — 9 days ago
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2Qs for the Weekend
Hello you gorgeous people,
I don't mind that people are playing sportsball. I just wish they'd shut up about it.
Everyone I know, had a shitty week last week. Which, unfortunately, makes me the common factor! 🤣
(I'm aware some souls feel self-deprecating humour is dangerous. . . not to me. Due to my British sensitivities, this comment is nothing more than a silly joke. 💜)
boring: Do you piss in the shower?
blaring: Do you play any kinky games? Do you know of any? Tell us what and how, please.
That's it from me. Enjoy what's left of the weekend. Try to do terrible things to lovely people.
T. x
u/TeaAitch — 10 days ago
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Flair on a Friday
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u/TeaAitch — 12 days ago
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Flair on a Friday
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u/TeaAitch — 19 days ago
▲ 2 r/RedditBDSM
Flair on a Friday
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u/TeaAitch — 26 days ago
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Boundaries and more. . .
I'd like to start this by thanking u/mistresscarmilla for mentioning the On Guard Cigar Salon podcast, in the recent 24/7 vs TPE post, created by u/Subwoofiest.
I've always struggled with kink podcasts. Many of them are set at a level which bores me. A lot of them have people sharing opinions I find rather dull. Way too many feature people explaining their version of One True Wayism. Not so, the On Guard Cigar Salon. This is a group of older (they're probably about my age) Leather Men, giving their thoughts, and sharing their experiences of a kinky lifestyle. They're knowledgeable, funny, accepting, and often irreverent. I'd urge you to give them a listen.
One of the episodes I listened to recently, was about Boundaries. It's a fairly basic topic. One which I expect everyone here to have discussed at length. They cover it very well, discussing:
Personal boundaries,
Community boundaries,
Limits,
Consent,
Rules, and more.
I thought I might shamelessly steal the idea for a discussion of our own. We have many interesting voices here; a diversity of personality types and play styles.
I'd like to hear stories of your boundaries, and how they may have changed over the years. Your thoughts of community boundaries, good or bad. What's the difference between boundaries and limits? How do you obtain consent? Is 'blanket consent' a thing? How rules play into your relationship with other people? Your personal rules that others shouldn't cross. Rules you may have for others, or that other have put in place for you. Or, perhaps you're an anarchist, who thinks all this old gubbins is for the birds?
Please don't feel the need to cover every bullet point. If you feel like just dropping a couple of lines, that's wonderful.
The one thing I ask is that you talk about you. I'm much less interested in what you think I should, or should not, be doing. Or, whether you disagree with me. Please 🙏 let's chat and have fun, rather than moralise about other people. 🫂
u/TeaAitch — 28 days ago
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2Qs for the Weekend
You're all such ghastly old rotters! Hello.
windy: What was a kinky thing that you thought was a limit for you, but once you tried it you became a keen convert?
windy How long was your longest scene/session?
That's it from me. I'm looking forward to reading your answers. Remember to try and do terrible things to lovely people.
T. x
u/TeaAitch — 1 month ago
▲ 2 r/RedditBDSM
Flair on a Friday
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u/TeaAitch — 1 month ago
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Flair on a Friday
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u/TeaAitch — 2 months ago
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2Qs for the Weekend.
Hello, you ghastly old rotters!
Sometimes I post two questions for the weekend. This week, I have an additional couple of whimsical questions.
slimmer: What's the 'worst word' in kink. This is an entirely subjective question. So, please, feel free to give your entirely subjective answer.
similar: Is there a particular kink or fetish that you were surprised to discover you enjoyed?
Whimsical for all: If a person can only deepthroat small cocks, can they really deepthroat?
Very niche whimsical question: If you're in a WLW relationship, and you regularly drive in or out of London together, is there a point when you say to each other:
"Les!"
"You les!"
Because I would. Every. Fucking. Time.
Enjoy what's left of the weekend. Try to do terrible things to lovely people.
T. x
u/TeaAitch — 2 months ago
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Flair on a Friday
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u/TeaAitch — 2 months ago
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Flair on a Friday
Hello you,
If you fancy a bit of personal flair, drop a response to this post. Spell out what you'd like. Be a little bit patient, and I'll get back to you.
Thank you.
u/TeaAitch — 2 months ago