u/Nubian_gypsy

38[F4M] PST - it’s almost Halloween… but I’m not looking for another haunting.

Ok… I’ve been haunted enough. I’ve got a plethora of ghost in my walls to supply a Chain of Haunted houses for an entire YEAR.

Now that I got that out of the way… maybe… I’m looking for someone on the West Coast. Preferably funny. Smart. Curious. A little inappropriate. Able to flirt like you mean it. And, this part feels important, still alive and communicative after we realize we actually like each other. <—the most important part!!

I do not need all-day texting. Please have a life. I certainly do. If you work from home… I’m far too busy for you.

But I also don’t want to spend three weeks having great conversation, building chemistry, exchanging all the little pieces of ourselves and then suddenly… POOF!!

Sir.

Where did you go?

Because I am not chasing you through the fog yelling, “Casper? Is that you?”

Wendy wishes she was as cool as me!

I like men who can talk.
Who ask questions because they actually want the answer. Who can match energy without needing to be entertained every second.

Someone with enough emotional intelligence to say, “Hey, life is kicking my ass this week,” instead of dying mysteriously and resurrecting three Tuesdays later with “hey stranger.”

No.
You are the stranger now.

I’m married. I’m left unattended too much…
I’m a black woman all the way through.
I have 2 kids.
I workout because I don’t want to suffer later.
I mostly talk shit… I hope it turns you on. Lmao.
5’2”
Thick.
Top heavy with thighs that match. Pretty face and feet.
Tattooed. Stuck up to people I don’t know… (people talk to me more than I’d like.) preserving energy. Or whatever.

West Coast strongly preferred because time zones are already annoying enough.

And if you know deep in your spirit that your natural relationship cycle is pursue → obtain → panic → vanish

Baby, I wish you healing.

But please haunt somebody else.

**if you’re a priest, I could use a little talk with god… an exorcism, of sorts.

Otherwise… happy hunting.

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u/Nubian_gypsy — 3 days ago

38 [f4m] Weekend Vibes, Only

I’m here for the weekend, celebrating myself!

Me and my friends are here to have fun and there’s never anything wrong with a lot of extra fun.

Me:
Short.
Sweet.
Black (deep brown skin)
Big… assets. All natural.

Thick; with the right kind of jiggle. (I spend a lot of my rime working out, even while here in this jungle ass heat!)

I wanna dress up tonight and dance. Nothing insane, but if the vibe is fun… well it’s Vegas, right?

You:
The more tattooed, the more fun I’ll have looking at you.
PREFER TALL MEN! But a short king with a pretty smile works too!
Hold my attention?
Have some class.
No late night shit.
Single is great, but if your girl is irritating you tonight, let’s run away? lol

No weird shit. I like blocking.

Worship me, make me laugh and let’s toast to a beautiful life!!

(Must be willing to drop pics)

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u/Nubian_gypsy — 28 days ago

38 [F4M] I’m already Short, Can you be Sweet?

[WEST COAST. PST]

I’ve been here. So have you. No need to make this take longer than we have both got.

I’m married, you should be too. If not, you’ll need to convince me as to why, why on earth you think you and I should waste our time together…

I’m a black woman, dark brown skin.

I’m 5’2”.
My eyes are the reason you’ll stay.
My smile is the reason you’ll fall.
I’ve got a smart mouth and not a lot of free time.

I love sending pics, because I think I’m fine af. I love voice notes, only if you sound good… & I am all for video chats and whatever else that will make this feel less like a cheap version of what we both want.

I like to laugh, I’m never serious and I honestly, just want someone who wants me. Who wants to talk. Who wants to vibe… you know, the reason we are alive?

Let’s talk shit about the state of the world and how hard it is to find a good book when you have toddlers…sigh.

I’m into men who work out. (That’s my favorite place to be)
Into good food and better desserts.
Someone who actually goes outside, but still has time for me.

I’m not the 9-5 AP. I like to talk whenever I want, no restrictions, except obviously when we are living our lives.

Tell me what song you would have walked down the hall to in high school… complete Hollywood montage style…

I’ll start: “Girlfriend” - Avril Lavigne

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u/Nubian_gypsy — 1 month ago