u/Nuggynuggs_88

So wife (51) and i (40) want to do this and have wanted to for quite a few years. We have been together 12years Its been on our bucket list a long time but the wife is worries it will be a drama and if we get into an argument or something I will use it against her in same way. Is there a way to convince her that that would not happen and that I am fully supportive of her and our choices

Thanks any advice would be apreciated