Sub unlocked squirting but has a hard time accepting it.
How can I help my sub (f32) accept that she is a squirter?
Context: sub had a hard time reaching orgasm. We worked on that a lot and made huge progress the past 6 months - I’m leaning towards pleasure, so that’s right down my alley…
By now she can cum very very hard and it doesn’t take a lot of effort anymore to get her there. (intensive crying and shaking type of orgasms and even subspace sometimes.)
She is into tease an denial, we use it a lot build her up towards the session.
The problem is: As a result of stimulating her inner tissue a lot and her training her pelvis muscles, she now started squirting and even gushing during orgasm a lot and she hates that part.
We talked through this, she hates she looses control over her body in these instances - specifically the gushing (when the bladder fills up between orgasms very fast and you loose control right before the next climax).
I need an outside perspective on how to make her more comfortable with squirting, I‘d like for her to enjoy her body and its reaction no matter what mess it makes.
(We have no issues with the fluids.)
Anyone else run into issues with accepting squirting? How did you overcome it?