How honest are the more "humiliating" aspects of cuckolding?
As someone not doing this dynamic yet, but have always been very curious, and have no idea how common verbal humiliation is in real cuckolding, there's something at the end of my fantasies I wondered about: In the cases were there are very rough verbal comparisons, like size comparisons or pleasure being better with the bull, how honest do couples make that? I understand the selection quality of the partner already in some way puts the cuckold as below the other two for the fantasy, but if the cuckold's partner says something like, "He fucks me better than you," Or something like that, does it register as something taken outside of the bedroom? Or is it closer to roleplay? I've skimmed a few posts but I don't know how deep the experiences are. Is the mystery behind those statements part of the draw too?
When I envision myself after the sex/watching, the humiliation being close to the truth is something I'm not sure I'd be cool with. I reckon that if it bothers me this kind of stuff is left better to explore through porn and a verbal fantasy with my partner.