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War noch nie in meinem Leben im FKK Bereich und hab keine Ahnung was man da macht aber finde die Idee dort mit meinem gay Freund hinzugehen irgendwie aufregend und hot...
Kann mir jemand sagen was man EIGENTLICH in den FKK Bereichen in den Thermen macht.
Und kann mir dann jemand auch sagen was man macht damit man da etwas Spaß haben kann? :D
For context:
Me and my gay boyfriend have been in a stable and trusting relationship for many years now.
I am very much into WS and even did it with myself a lot of times.
He however is not.. but he knows of my kink and we spoke about it a few times before.
The situation:
After asking me if I wanted something special for my birthday (sex) i got shy and responded that i would really like to try WS with him.
He wasnt surprised and agreed to try it but only very tame things.
On my birthday however we were both very tired once we got time for ourselfs. But we still had sex and the whole time i was waiting for him to do it or rather tell me if we are going to do it or not. But nothing happened and he got really tired and we didnt even finish and went to sleep.
We havent talked about the "promised gift" since then.
Now here come my questions for you guys:
I worry that he really doesnt want to do it but just cant say no and therefor tries his best to avoid it.
But I myself am also very afraid to do it with him if he finds no enjoyment out of it.
Everytime after our talks about my kink i feel extremely ashamed and regret telling him about it (post nut clarity and all)...
Im afraid that this could hurt our relationship and that eventually all he would see in me is some perverted ws loving guy that he has to please.
Has anyone experienced something like this with their partner before and actually made it work or event turned them into liking ws?