r/GaySex

Im getting ready right now to bottom for this guy. Not first time but im always anxious. I love way bottoming makes me feel. Love how much my ass cums getting fucked. Love how hot it makes me feel. Love it wayy wayy too much when he cums deep in me. His cum is so fucking hot in me. Hopefully i can get 2 creampies. 2nd one always more intense hotter and bigger...lasts lot longer. Any ideas on positions?

I’m a bottom i tried bottoming multiple times but I could never get a prostate orgasm without touching my dick. I rly wanna try that feeling wt can I doo?

It’s been a while since I had sex and next week I might do it with my ex (I hope I don’t regret that lol) anyway to make it special he told me not to jerk off until then and honestly it’s been years since I stayed a week without doing. How much difference does it make? cause honestly I can get SO HORNY even if I did it like 2 hours ago and I don’t feel like i can get hornier if stop it for a while.

Me and someone are booking a place and we wanna make it worth by going for lots of rounds instead of just doing it for 2 hours. Is there something we should do or take like Viagra? I wanna make it special honestly.

Starting to realize that i love having a dildo in my mouth when I masturbate. It's better than just jerking off normally because it helps me imagine a hot guy pounding my face which gets me off a ton. Does anyone else here regularly suck on a dildo when jerking off?

Hi! So i'm a virgin and am obvs really inexperienced. I have a couple of questions, so if anyone can help I'd really appreciate it!

1. How does eating ass work? Like in prep?
2. What does it taste like? I don't know if there's a food or something that even tastes remotely similar but thought I'd still ask.
3. Can someone cum from eating ass?
4. Does it actually feel good?
5. Does your tongue get tired?
6. How do you position the bottom for easier access?
7. How does stretching work? Like when someone's preparing to take a dick.
8. Is there something that makes this easier?
9. Something I should definitely avoid? I've seen in lots of places that lots of lube helps but was wondering if there's anything else?
10. How do you find someone's prostate?
11. When you're the one fingering someone, can you feel someone's prostate?
12. How can you tell it's the prostate instead of something else? I've read a lot of romances (which leave a lot out), watched tv (also leave a lot out), watched porn (I know 90% of porn is fake), and google's honestly not helpful.
13. I'm sorry if this next question is tmi (feel free to skip). What are some things you tell your partner while actually having sex? Like dirty talk?
14. I haven't fucked anyone nor been fucked but I am a bit awkward and tend to stay quiet in most situations so I'd assume it would be the same in sex but idk. What are some things I can say to a top and then what are some things I could say to a bottom (to make them hornier or something?)?
15. I feel like everyone's had "the talk" at school but it's never really helpful lol. I know that you should use condoms but what if I wanted to feel someone cum inside of me?
16. Is it safe? Assuming I'm the only person my partner's been with, would it be safe to go no-condom (also assuming they have good hygiene)?
17. Is there a big feeling difference between wearing a condom and not wearing a condom? For tops and bottoms?
18. What are some positions that could feel good for both parties?
19. Or for one or the other (assuming it's not uncomfortable for the other person)?
20. I feel like I have a pretty high lobito and the idea of fucking someone or being fucked by someone somewhere that isn't a bed sounds fun. Like for some reason a family bathroom in like a mall or something or the car. I'm so sorry if that sounds weird. Are there any places you would/would not recommend?
21. In my other research, I've seen that hands-free orgasms are rare but if I wanted my partner to experience that (assuming they do too), what are some things that I can do that will help them achieve that?
22. And the idea of a hands-free cum sounds nice to me too. What does it feel like? Also, in comparison to a 'regular' cum?
23. How can I suck dick? I've seen the, lots of tongue and covering your bottom teeth with your tongue and not your lip but is there anything else? I really just want to help/make my partner feel good.
24. I've seen that edging someone can help their actual orgasm be stronger/longer. Is that true?
25. What are some ways that are nice way of edging someone? I don't really have a lot of toys nor the way to get them easily.
26. What does cum taste like? I've seen where the things you eat change the flavor but I was wondering if there was like a base flavor (lol I feel like I'm talking about frosting)? I've heard it's really salty.
27. Are there any other things I should know?

Thank you so much in advance! I really appreciate any advice.

Has anyone been to a group masturbation session? Not like a jack off club, more an organized event.

I 36m sucked dick for the first time. It was very fun! I have been downloading Grindr coming home from the bars for a few months then chickening out.

a few days ago I was home after work and bored. I started chatting with a guy. We had a good chat. I send a face pic for the first time. We ended up going for a walk. Went back to his place and played Mario kart. We made out for a bit. Then he pulled out his cock. I think I did a good job. He jerked me off after.

I definitely want to see him again. lol I don’t really have anyone I really want to share this with irl. But it was awesome and I liked it a lot!

I’ve been experimenting with Reddit bi communities. I dated a woman years ago who opened me up to ass play, but I stopped after we broke up. Recently gotten back into it and went a little hard the other night at the request of an online partner. Took all the anal beads after not playing back there for a while. Was pretty miserable the next day. Had no control of my sphincter. Did I just go too hard too fast? It felt great, but I was very loose for a day and half. Did I just need to flex my hole in my down time, like working a muscle? Thanks!

For context:

Me and my gay boyfriend have been in a stable and trusting relationship for many years now.

I am very much into WS and even did it with myself a lot of times.

He however is not.. but he knows of my kink and we spoke about it a few times before.

The situation:

After asking me if I wanted something special for my birthday (sex) i got shy and responded that i would really like to try WS with him.

He wasnt surprised and agreed to try it but only very tame things.

On my birthday however we were both very tired once we got time for ourselfs. But we still had sex and the whole time i was waiting for him to do it or rather tell me if we are going to do it or not. But nothing happened and he got really tired and we didnt even finish and went to sleep.

We havent talked about the "promised gift" since then.

Now here come my questions for you guys:

1. Should we even do WS together?

I worry that he really doesnt want to do it but just cant say no and therefor tries his best to avoid it.

But I myself am also very afraid to do it with him if he finds no enjoyment out of it.

Everytime after our talks about my kink i feel extremely ashamed and regret telling him about it (post nut clarity and all)...

Im afraid that this could hurt our relationship and that eventually all he would see in me is some perverted ws loving guy that he has to please.

2. Question:

Has anyone experienced something like this with their partner before and actually made it work or event turned them into liking ws?