r/GaySex

Yall I’ve been sexting my boyfriend for the last few hours about the sex we’re going to have after I’m off work and I’m so horny I need to post about it on Reddit.

We’re staying in a hotel right now and he’s there getting ready and I’ve just been commanding him about what to do to get ready for me.

He’s gonna be ass up on the bed in a jockstrap and harness ready for me to come in, eat his ass, and pound him the fuck out. We have really amazing sex and every once in a while we get so aggressive and rough and today is going to be one of those times.

Anything fun I should do to him? I have a pretty good idea exactly what I’m going to do to him but would love some suggestions anyways!

Happy fucking everyone

We’re long distance and travel is too expensive to be random…

All I can think about rn is him coming home, stripping us both, climbing on top of me, and shoving his fat perfect cock in my hole. I need to hear him groan while he stretches me, smell his scent surround me, feel him throb deep inside me, his sweat on my body. I need his cum in me, his moans to fill my ears, his lips against mine. I need him to suck every drop of cum out of my cock.

I’d give anything to be able to take his cock and be his good boy

What are some neutral or masculine names guys use to call their butt holes when engaged in sex besides pussy, bussy, mussy, or other feminine sounding terms?

we always joke about sucking each other off or doing gay shit, he accidentally saw my dick for the first time after being friends for 3/4 years and then we joked about me sucking him off in this dark alleyway, he then saw me hard and as we left eachother he complimeted it, i ask if i can suck him in a jokey way but i really mean it, and he always says about sucking me too, idk if im being delusional but i feel like its a matter of time, i really would love to do something about it but i dont know…

I’m 19 and really interested in jerking off with guys, but I’m a bit shy because i’ve never done anything in person, and was wondering what are some good sites for online jerking? I don’t want to do it on the hookup sites, because I feel like i’ll lead people on and disappoint them. Any advice is appreciated, and if anyone wants to jerk as well, feel free to leave me the app you use and your username ;)

Hey I would love advice here. I'm pretty well endowed, and would love to be more of a top to use it. Trouble is, try as I might, I can't cum when I top. I enjoy topping a lot with certain guys, but I never climax, and only rarely get to the point where I even start to feel like I might. So I've been primarily a bottom. Which I also love, but I don't like that it's just my default.

I know part of it is the way I jerk off, and definitely need to overcome death-grip syndrome. I've been getting better. Previously I could only cum on my back vigorously jerking it, even by myself, and I'm pretty sure my pelvic floor is tight. With mindfulness and relaxation techniques, I've learned to masturbate standing up with slower strokes. But as soon as other people are around, I revert to only being able to cum through a lot of tension. Which isn't ideal. And sometimes even gives me charlie horses.

Is the solution just not to touch my dick at all myself? For context, I take daily Cialis and l-citrulline, which has definitely helped keep me erect. I'm sure part of it is some mental block. I need to focus on something really hot in order to even get me close, and focusing for me is hard during sex. I'm also hoping to be screened for ADHD, because focus is generally a problem, but I know ADHD meds might make it worse. I'm keeping up the mindfulness and pelvic floor work, but I'm beginning to think I need to just only allow others to touch my dick and not myself.

Anyone else overcome this? Any guidance?

Guys this question is mainly for brown gays especially bottoms i guess. How do you take care of your ass ?

I'm in my journey to lose weight and maybe because of the fat and all , i have stretch marks which is good but there is darkening in some parts and also because of being little hairy, it looks like its dirty .And also my complexion is not that dark as my ass. I always clean my body but definitely i am doing something wrong. Please tell me it can be better. I just want a good looking ass (not preferably white ) in my own complexion.

How do you clean and take care of it?

Okay I’ve always been worried about if I ever gonna get look down upon for this but I’ve had a girl for a year now and have been meeting this one guy for dick every couple of months or so i genuinely feel quilty every time but im just so easily lead into sex with him i get plenty of action with my current gf and our sex life is good but feel like something missing obviously it’s dih most time he cums in me we do 69 we cuddle we kiss everything and it worry’s me that she will find out one all thought I delete all messages and keep it all hidden I love her and wouldn’t wanna loes her but carnt seem to stop taking dick is it bad to carry on or be honest and get her try something new with me so I can satisfy all round

I (20M) would like to go deeper into my butt. I can only go 6 inches in and i would like to go further. i have only ever used hard objects so i think the reason i cant go deeper is because its hard plastic. im thinking of getting a 18 inch by 1.8 inch silicone tentacle. Because it is soft and flexible silicone will i be able to go deeper? if not, what can i use to go deeper?

this is the specific one im planning to buy: Tentacle

When I'm being fucked in doggy I love to reach back and just softly touch the top's dick briefly as he thrusts into me. I don't grab his dick or really do anything more than a light touch once or twice. I especially love to do it so I can feel my ring at the same time. For whatever reason it makes it feel a lot more 'real' to me, like as soon as I've done that I'm like "holy shit I've actually got another man's cock inside me". I don't really see this in porn and I don't have any gay friends so I can't really ask anyone in person. Anyone else do this?

For a while I wanted to try having sex with a guy for the first time I wanna be submissive to them and let them use my body in anyway if possible does anyone have tips for my first time what to do and where can I find people to have gay sex with

I haven't been in this situation in many, many years because I've been in a monogamous relationship. In a relationship, you'll be hanging out at home, and if things are heating up, you excuse yourself to go douche. It's understandable and not embarrassing because you and your partner are comfortable around each other.

When hooking up, you obviously douche before he comes over or before you go over.

But what about on a date? If the plan is to go out for a drink and then come back to one of your places for sex, too much time would pass between couching and sex for it to still be effective if you do it before the date. And it sounds incredibly embarrassing to excuse yourself to go douche in front of a guy if it's your first date. How do y'all do it? Please don't say "I don't need to douche," if that's your situation, good for you, but I always need to douche.

How does it feel getting fucked for the first time I have got a hookup lined up and he has a 8” I just want to know how it is and how to prepare for it

I'm discreet but looking for someone to share nasty gay sex talk with and get things off my chest. I want to be myself with someone.

I would love to be gangbanged by 3 to 7 guys. Having all them hard dicks wanting to fuck me turns me on so much. I want dick in my mouth, ass, and both hands. I want to be degraded, slapped and covered in cum. I want the guys to hit raw and to swallow a lot of cum. I want the guys to go for as long as they want and as many times as they want.
I’m:
5’5
White
Blonde
Masc

I always struggle to do good dirty talk when bottom’s request it. I can’t really think of much to say besides “Yeh? You like my dick? You’re gonna take all of my dick aren’t you? Good boy. You like that don’t you”. Or something like that. But that gets old very fast. What other kinds of things can I say?

How did you all learn to give blowjobs? Any favorite first time blowjobs? Any all time favorite blowjobs? Finally, do you prefer swallowing or spitting their cum?