u/Ok_Appeal9770

I want to be able to respond physically—like feeling it in my nipples or internally—when I get soft dom instructions.

I’ve been consistently stimulating my nipples quite strongly, but it hasn’t gotten to the point where I get wet just from that yet.

For penetration, I only have a pretty thin vibrator, and I’m thinking about whether I should buy a more realistic dildo.

How do other people usually develop their bodies for this kind of thing?

How do people meet sexting partners, and how do you usually introduce yourselves to each other?

If you’re okay with it, feel free to share your sexting experiences!!

What I’m looking for is a dynamic where sometimes we’re chatting and he’ll guide me step by step with masturbation instructions from start to finish, but other times it’s more spontaneous—he’ll randomly send me instructions, or I’ll randomly send him flirty messages and get soft dom’d when I’m in the mood. (I don’t want to exchange photos, though.)

Once, when I was really drunk, I got super turned on by the idea of being told to go to a convenience store with a small vibrator inside me. lol

Has anyone else ever experienced something like that? I’d love to hear what kinds of instructions or dynamics you found the hottest.