u/Ok_Heart_3154

How do I be dominant outside of the bedroom in other ways than just being mean? Are there things I can say or ways I can act or talk that come across in a dominant way without just degrading and being cruel? I’m pretty good at that but I don’t want to just be mean all day long, I want to try other ways. I struggle with confidence and freeze up a lot so any suggestions for ways to be dominant (again, not sexually - I’m already very good at this, and not necessarily just cruelty). Thanks!

Hi! My sub and I have been heavily playing into the blackmail, threatening to ruin him, public (and private) humiliation. I’ve been taking lots of pictures and videos of him dressed up, before and after caning him, with dildos in his mouth/ass etc. The idea would be posting these pictures online (anonymously) and then watching comments appear and myself as his domme engaging in commentary about him. We are still relatively new to this, is there a good place to post pics and get visibility? Somewhere on Reddit perhaps? The thing that gets him off the most is the idea of me conversing with other women about him in lingerie, small penis, feminizing him, etc.
thanks in advance for any ideas!