I’m a huge feminist in real life, like I have opinions and I’ll argue them if I have to. That part of me is very much there.
But I think this is one of those spaces where I don’t feel like being in that headspace all the time. Sometimes it’s nice to just switch off a little and not think so much.
I’ve also realised I pay a lot of attention to how someone talks. Like the tone, the timing, the way a conversation moves. Some people just have a way of making things feel easy and interesting without trying too hard and I like that more than anything else.
I like when conversations feel a bit playful, a bit unpredictable, where it’s not just question answer question answer but something that actually flows. Where I don’t feel like I’m carrying it and I can just… go with it.
I think I’m at a point where I just want to enjoy a good conversation with someone who gets that kind of thing.
If you do, you’ll probably get what I mean.