u/Ok_Lab8153

Has anyone experienced a correlation between burnout/stress and a significantly reduced desire to submit and decreased masochism?

I used to love S/m play and be very submissive, but over the last few years I've become less masochistic to the point where I can barely tolerate pain, and I don't feel submissive in that deep, intense way that reaches far outside the bedroom any longer. I've recently realized that I've been burned out for a very long time, running on fumes, so I wonder if that's why I've become so sensivite when it comes to BDSM and it's not just that I've changed and lost the desire for those things, as I've thought for a long while.