u/Ok_Lack2039

Teach me how to dirty talk during sex

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I'm learning how to give a blowjob but my teeth comes in contact now matter how wide I keep my mouth. Girls give me some tips and boys tell me yow you like it, gonna try it on him again tomorrow

My husband and I dated for 7 years before marrying and stayed virgins till then. Both of us had high libidos which made me think he'd jump right at me the moment we are married. I know his libido was much higher because he'd have to masturbate everyday atleast once. The day we got married he didn't seem too eager to have sex, I wanted to so we tried but it was difficult. A week went by like that, me initiating every time and he'd just have a dead face while trying. I tried everything, seducing, lingerie, flirting, nothing seemed to get him hard. I started realizing he needed porn everytime he needs to get in mood, without it the air was dead between us, like he is just doing it for my sake. Months went by like that, we had fights and confrontations, I wanted the corn to stop because it felt like that was the reason.

In situations like these, women tend to blame themselves. It started feeling like I wasn't attractive or good enough. Maybe I'm doing something wrong or maybe I'm not his type? I couldn't understand.

He is a good guy, loves me a lot. Yes he has lied to me before and deleted chats with female coworkers, but that was resolved.

He is doing everything to improve our relationship now, loving me like I have never loved before, everyone around him knows.

Stuff in the bedroom is kinda improving but the porn hasn't stopped

I am curious what's going on in his head. Why wouldn't someone want to have sex for the first time. Why wouldn't it excite them, it worries me sometimes.

Any advice from a man's pov here?