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She is not very comfortably with exploring her down there but she likes to rub a dildo externally but never went inside.

I was considering a bullet since it’s small and easy to hide but I suspect for that you need to be very precise and find the clit, and as she don’t like to explore it might be a problem

I was considering a wand as well since its bigger and maybe more familiar like the tip of the dildo.

What’s the difference in feeling?

Which do you think is better in your own case but also in her case and feel free to recommend me anything else