I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and I honestly don’t know what to do.
There’s this guy in my friend group. We hang out pretty often, nothing unusual, but the way he is with me…. He’s always the one who listens, who goes along with whatever I tell him, who just kind of does things for me when i ask. And its thing like when i tell him to pick something up for me he does it, for example. It’s subtle, but i notice it. He just… naturally falls into that “good boy” kind of energy around me, even though he has no idea that I even think in those terms.
And that’s the thing,he doesn’t know that side of me at all. I don’t really show it. But I know I like being the one in control, setting the pace. With him, it feels like that dynamic is already there, just unspoken.
So now I’m stuck wondering if I should actually try something with him or just leave it alone.
Like, what if I’m reading too much into it and he’s just being nice? Or what if we get together and it changes everything, and suddenly the friendship is gone too? But at the same time, it kind of feels like there’s something there that I’m just ignoring.
I don’t know. Would you go for it, or just keep things as they are?🌚