u/Ok_Plantain8561

Hi guys, newly married im confronted to something new in my sexual life. My wife does like sex (we make love everyday) but also seems shy or reserved. I asked her what i can do or not and she just answered you can do whatever you want as long as you dont beat me. Im not okay with that answer because that is so large and “whatever” for her can be really different from another girl.

Anyway, so Im trying to discover what she likes, what turn on she has and what she is into but i want to do it on a healthy path.

I would like some advice from girls/women on what approach should i use with a timid woman. What are the “standard” fantasies for women that I could explore first with her? How can I make her more comfortable and open sexually?