My bf says intercourse is too much work
Don’t know if I should post here…My bf ‘19M’ and I ‘19F’ have been dating for a little over a year. For the past 10ish months we’d go months without being intimate,I have brought this problem up multiple times and every time he just says he’s not in the mood or he doesn’t have the time. Not to sound weird but I believe that it is important to a relationship to have that kind of intimacy and connection because we used to be active. One time awhile back I made a joke on how he doesn’t really make me finished and he got really upset, I explained how he just needs to listen to what actually pleases me, however he took that very critically. I’ve asked him recently , “are you gay…do I not turn you on…etc” but all no. He says “it’s just too much work, and you are never satisfied.”
But the thing is he talks about it, he talked about it all day of prom but we leave and go home and he just sleeps.
I honestly feel like so unattractive and weird to him. Has this happened before to anyone? Any advice?