u/Ok_Replacement_9969

Just the title. My girlfriend and I met through bdsm, and it wasn’t until 6 months of us dating (a year into knowing each other) that she ended everything because she could no longer handle the dynamic. I still don’t understand why, because I did what she wanted.

I was the sub and she was the domme. We’re still together and this happened closer to two years ago, so there hasn’t been any dynamic since. I’m just finding myself missing bdsm a lot these past few weeks, and I’m starting to think about it nightly as I truly just miss bdsm so much.

I’m wondering if anyone here has any experience with this and what they did in response.