u/Old-Following-203

As the post states, I'm new to pumping in general, and especially to jar pumping. Ive done a fair bit of research about how to pump and get good results, but so far any meaningful results have eluded me. My typical pumps are warm water for about 30mins daily. I hadn't noticed any real swelling with that, so I tried dry for an hour and a half or so. I took a break in the middle to massage and topped of vacuum periodically throughout. Still no noticeable swelling. Also, hydrated before and during.

All this to ask, the opening of my jar is about 3.5 inches wide and it seems to draw in a fair amount of my pelvic area as well. Is that yhe issue? Also, any and all input is welcomed.