I’m too shy to tell my boyfriend what I want in the bedroom
>!Okay so I 21F have a boyfriend 22M. We’ve been together over a year and we have great communication when it comes to disagreements and there’s no concerns about how much we love each other. BUT!<
>!When it comes it sex I feel like i want it more than him all the time. I think my drive is higher than his and I’m too shy to ask him for more. I can’t effectively communicate what I’d like to do in the bedroom either without getting too shy and scared to talk. He’s sweet and I’m sure he’d like to listen it’s just hard to explain to him.!<
>!His thing is a great size but when it comes to foreplay it’s lacking and I can tell his unsure of what he’s doing as we’re still young. I’d like to explain and guide him but again I’m literally so shy when it comes to expressing these things. Mentally in my head it feels like I’m asking for too much and it takes me out of the moment and ruins the fun to me.!<
>!Advice is welcome and needed !!<