First time nerves
Long story short, both 51, married 15 years. Vanilla sex, stuck in a rut. Wife suggested 'experimenting" with swinging and has bought tickets to First timers night (two fridays away). Rules are no taking details, same room only, any threesome has to include other partner, and must use rubbers (me and her) if we connect with any other couples. We both have to agree on anyone joining us. She's already sorted out babysitters, our outfits, hotel room I'm excited but also extremely nervous. She's petite and still pretty so I'm sure she'll get attention. I'm not the 'biggest' guy and short for a man. Hoping this doesn't affect our chances. What's the general age/body shape/race (I'm asian) at these venues? I'm comfortable in my own skin, just don't want to jeopardise her chances.