What the hell happened to this brand… they used to have a lot of cute unique shit & now she selling shein rompers that are $7 for $25 after shipping :/ makes me sad to see how far they it went down hill.
Idk wtf it is if it’s the economy or what but the resurgence of pimps in the club rn is DISGUSTING. Idk if it’s the state/ towns I work in/ south Florida but it’s really fcked up to see another girl I worked with fall into its hands. Keep your mind sharp, learn about their tactics/ behaviors/ characteristics. Do not allow these repulsive fucks to manipulate you, your money, your life. Get tf away from them. Stay safe always and many blessings. Also know you CAN use the national domestic abuse hotline for resources to get away from them 800-799-7233 no questions asked.
I absolutely cannot stand how many places in Florida make you have a fucking license it’s so stupid imo. Does anyone know how long Lee county FL police usually takes to process a license? You don’t have to say it here you can DM me if u want, thanks <3
Does anyone know if they’re travel dancer friendly?
Alongside dancing, astrology readings are one of my side hustles so I thought the astrology girlies might enjoy this:
Why each MALE sign is in the club (with sighting levels):
Aquarius: looking to feel fulfilled or entertained
Cancer: wants to be heard & emotionally accepted for the night
Taurus: RARE. mainly drinking but wants a dance, if yall vibe
Aries: looking to feel masculated & proving himself to himself
Gemini: demonic, needing a soul to feed off** **
Virgo: KINDA RARE. feeling lonely/ wanting connection
Sagittarius: RAREST OF ALL. Overworked & letting loose or he knows the DJ
Pisces: KINDA RARE. horny & bored or heart broken (there’s no in between)
Scorpio: (re)/fueling his large ego
Libra: wants to party & feel like he’s in BossMan Dlow music video
Leo: PRETTY RARE. his homeboys dragged him out or he’s flexing his cash
Capricorn: VERY RARE. His life is in shambles, proceed with caution
LMK if yall want the female customer version 🤣
You have haters. Period. Keep shining ❤️
For me it’s when there’s a HURRICANE on stage, stacks flying in from multiple directions, no one touching you it’s just raining tf down. That’s my greatest feeling in the club. Esp when I’m upside down on the pole 🤣
had one of those nights where it’s just straight weirdos. Some on silly shit, others on genuinely scary shit. The 1st guy had a swastika on his head so fuck that. The 2nd guy would not stop talking in some sort of code, weird words and sounds put together but he kept tipping big bills so I said fuck it lmfao. The 3rd guy was awful. He was one of those I’m sooo falling in love with you (he probably had a plan to off me in the night given the chance) genuinely scary.. went on and on about his pedo dad & how he used to throw his dog down the stairs… yikes. Between the 2nd & 3rd guy It made a good night $$ wise but it was a toll type of night. The other thing is they need to stop letting people with Nazi tattoos and clothes in the club like it’s 2026 bsffr rn.
Alri yall so I stopped waxing for personal reasons, I’m back to shaving & I wanted to share this for anyone who has struggled with ingrown hairs & razors bumps bc I don’t believe EVERYTHING should be gate kept.
I do not experience them anymore after doing this:
Before shaving, add some rubbing alcohol to toilet paper, gentle wipe the area BIKINI LINE ONLY do not get in inside your vagina on vulva. Then take a shower, use your soap or whatever to shave. After you get out the shower wait 20-30 min then wipe with alcohol again. No underwear for an hour if you can. Clean razor with alcohol after.
If the bumps are bad, treat them with a little Neosporin before & after shaving <3
I can’t stand when men try to kiss my hand like mf get up this is the strip club not the night of the ball. They only do it as a way to put their lips on you in some form for free. Same with massaging where they don’t wanna pay you to do it (imo). Annoying asf. Sometimes I feel rude for declining but idgaf bc it’s nasty & I don’t want it. The only way they should be showing their admiration is with money.
Sharing this bc it helps me often & it might help you 🩷
Things that bring $$
-Confidence (fake it till you make it if you need to)
-Not being involved in drama & bs all the time. & not always being together with a clique of girls
-Smiling on stage
-Carrying yourself as if youre happy to be there (take a day off if it’s too much)
-Venting off the floor where customers can’t hear you
-Ignoring/ walking away from idiots
-Smelling lighter/ fresher & keeping your skin moisturized
-Doing different & new hair, makeup, outfits, shoes & music
Sometimes this environment can get to be so heavy, remember these things & remember YOU ARE THAT GIRL 🩷
Which do you prefer? Personally I prefer a tiny purse but it’s starting to get on my nerves 💀 might switch back to money bag
Genuinely idk wtf to do about this but I feel like I should be able to sue . This mf btch ass DJ decided to go in the club computer and look at my ID to see where I live. He shared it with multiple other employees too. I’m done with this club for sure but idk what to do about it if there’s anything I even can. Manager knows doesn’t GAF.
Idk what’s wrong with this DJ at my club. He’s one of 3 that work there. All the sudden he’s decided he has a problem with the music I dance to. I have worked with him a while, taken great care of him $$. makes me wonder if management is trying to change the vibe of the club & he can’t say, tho I feel like he would. It doesn’t seem anyone else’s music has changed either. He’s been passive aggressive about my music the last few weeks. I’m wondering should I ignore it or try & talk to him.
It’s so funny to me how some of these clubs expect so much loyalty from dancers. Management will be pressed asf if they hear you’re working at another club but wouldn’t have your back the ONE time you needed it & brush serious sht off like it doesn’t matter. You could be there for years & they still dgaf. Won’t protect girls who are there 5-6 days out the week making them money consistently. Hiring back raggedy btches that cause issues. Long story short my clubs going to sht & it sucks.
I want to get other perspectives on this, tell me what you think. Im not giving context bc im curious what your raw genuine reaction would be: you get called to stage & they play numb & in the end by linkin park, how would you feel? What vibe would that give you?