u/OneEfficiency9757

That maybe the reason you don’t have any money and you’re always complaining about being broke, not being able to afford anything, stressed out about bills is because you spend all your time focusing on every single other thing in the club that is irrelevant, instead of making money . No I am not talking about the state of the economy, that’s out of everyone’s control. I’m talking about things that are within control that have zero focus and effort to them because someone’s too busy wrapped up in bullshit that doesn’t MAKE THEM MONEY. Not even trying to be a bitch, but a lot of these girls should not be dancers. This shit takes effort, consistency and mindset. I think the biggest problem with a lot of people is the mindset because if you’re constantly telling yourself that you’re down bad, you’re broke. You have no money. Everything‘s hard. Everything’s a mess. That’s all your life is gonna be. I don’t think people realize that we create our own reality. Our thoughts subconsciously become action and that action is the results we see in our day-to-day lives.

TLDR: Look in the mirror every day and come to know that you are that rich bitch and you’re on your way to more and more success every day.

Yes I’m going to lie. That bouncer that asks where I live? Random dancer I don’t know? Bartender I’m not close to? YES . OF COURSE IM GOING TO LIE. You can’t even be mad at someone lying about personal shit, especially at a damn strip club. It’s a form of protection. Too many of these new workers are way too comfortable prying. If I’m close to someone/ known them years/ trust them then yeah Im honest but to strangers? FUCK NO. That includes in my personal life, hell I lie about my government name if the vibe is telling. I’m tired of new tiktok girls coming in thinking this is tea time with the girlies, it’s not. Strip club is not the place to get comfortable like that.

Side note: to the new girls that think your boyfriend coming in, spending zero & watching is “protecting” you, it’s not. He’s pocket watching you. Protect your assets and safety ALWAYS.

I’ve had to end multiple dances this last week over this. Why THE FUCK are these men digging their fucking disgusting grody ass nails in my back when I’m dancing???? I give 1 warning for that then it’s over bc omfg EW . They get all mad and shit, I’m like you’re really turning me the fuck off with that nail digging bullshit fr .

There’s so much bs we deal with from men nightly so I thought I’d share an immediate karma moment that gave me enough serotonin to get thru the week.

It had been really slow and I was dying of boredom. Finally some people come in & I get called to stage. A guy comes, he barely tips. He throws a bigger bill on stage maybe a 20 or 50, he grabbed it back so quick before I could see & says “oops didn’t mean to do that”. I’m like okay loser. I get off stage. He kept trying to get a reaction out of me the entire time I was at the bar. He even slammed his drink down really loud & stared right at me. I paid no mind.

More time passes, more people come in. I get called up again & an old man hobbles up to the stage and makes it fuckin DOWNPOUR. This got the attention of brokie. He runs over (mind you I had already told security about him so they come over to). I spend some time with the old man and brokie degenerate sits almost right next to us & then interrupts our conversation to ask for a dance. I looked at old man, old man takes me back to VIP again.

TLDR: pay no mind to brokies/ losers. stay unbothered, the universe is always watching and has your back.

Before I say anything else first off fuck all management that allow this bc that’s really the bigger issue here . BUT . If you’re gonna come into a club you used to work at & yell loud as fuck all night, shake ass for customers for FREE… right in front of the stage… PLEASE … make sure your breath doesn’t smell like you ate your own diarrhea . Get a mint & maybe throw a couple bucks while you’re at it 😭💀 god damn

Every time I get on stage it’s this same girl before me that leaves money behind, like $6-7 worth nothing crazy. At first I’d pick up & give it back to her, she would take it and walk off/ nothing said. This went on for weeks and weeks. It got to the point where I just started pocketing that shit bc im not wasting my first song picking up her left overs. It does kind of go against my beliefs a little but I feel like this girl had the mindset of I’m supposed to be her sweeper or something bc we don’t have men for that at this club. We’ve never really talked much but she’s friends with someone I really don’t fw. What do y’all think? Am I wrong or should I just keep picking it up and giving it back to her every time?

What the hell happened to this brand… they used to have a lot of cute unique shit & now she selling shein rompers that are $7 for $25 after shipping :/ makes me sad to see how far they it went down hill.

Idk wtf it is if it’s the economy or what but the resurgence of pimps in the club rn is DISGUSTING. Idk if it’s the state/ towns I work in/ south Florida but it’s really fcked up to see another girl I worked with fall into its hands. Keep your mind sharp, learn about their tactics/ behaviors/ characteristics. Do not allow these repulsive fucks to manipulate you, your money, your life. Get tf away from them. Stay safe always and many blessings. Also know you CAN use the national domestic abuse hotline for resources to get away from them 800-799-7233 no questions asked.

I absolutely cannot stand how many places in Florida make you have a fucking license it’s so stupid imo. Does anyone know how long Lee county FL police usually takes to process a license? You don’t have to say it here you can DM me if u want, thanks <3

Does anyone know if they’re travel dancer friendly?

Alongside dancing, astrology readings are one of my side hustles so I thought the astrology girlies might enjoy this:

Why each MALE sign is in the club (with sighting levels):

Aquarius: looking to feel fulfilled or entertained
Cancer: wants to be heard & emotionally accepted for the night
Taurus: RARE. mainly drinking but wants a dance, if yall vibe
Aries: looking to feel masculated & proving himself to himself
Gemini: demonic, needing a soul to feed off** **
Virgo: KINDA RARE. feeling lonely/ wanting connection
Sagittarius: RAREST OF ALL. Overworked & letting loose or he knows the DJ
Pisces: KINDA RARE. horny & bored or heart broken (there’s no in between)
Scorpio: (re)/fueling his large ego
Libra: wants to party & feel like he’s in BossMan Dlow music video
Leo: PRETTY RARE. his homeboys dragged him out or he’s flexing his cash
Capricorn: VERY RARE. His life is in shambles, proceed with caution

LMK if yall want the female customer version 🤣

You have haters. Period. Keep shining ❤️

For me it’s when there’s a HURRICANE on stage, stacks flying in from multiple directions, no one touching you it’s just raining tf down. That’s my greatest feeling in the club. Esp when I’m upside down on the pole 🤣

had one of those nights where it’s just straight weirdos. Some on silly shit, others on genuinely scary shit. The 1st guy had a swastika on his head so fuck that. The 2nd guy would not stop talking in some sort of code, weird words and sounds put together but he kept tipping big bills so I said fuck it lmfao. The 3rd guy was awful. He was one of those I’m sooo falling in love with you (he probably had a plan to off me in the night given the chance) genuinely scary.. went on and on about his pedo dad & how he used to throw his dog down the stairs… yikes. Between the 2nd & 3rd guy It made a good night $$ wise but it was a toll type of night. The other thing is they need to stop letting people with Nazi tattoos and clothes in the club like it’s 2026 bsffr rn.

Alri yall so I stopped waxing for personal reasons, I’m back to shaving & I wanted to share this for anyone who has struggled with ingrown hairs & razors bumps bc I don’t believe EVERYTHING should be gate kept.

I do not experience them anymore after doing this:

Before shaving, add some rubbing alcohol to toilet paper, gentle wipe the area BIKINI LINE ONLY do not get in inside your vagina on vulva. Then take a shower, use your soap or whatever to shave. After you get out the shower wait 20-30 min then wipe with alcohol again. No underwear for an hour if you can. Clean razor with alcohol after.

If the bumps are bad, treat them with a little Neosporin before & after shaving <3

I can’t stand when men try to kiss my hand like mf get up this is the strip club not the night of the ball. They only do it as a way to put their lips on you in some form for free. Same with massaging where they don’t wanna pay you to do it (imo). Annoying asf. Sometimes I feel rude for declining but idgaf bc it’s nasty & I don’t want it. The only way they should be showing their admiration is with money.

Sharing this bc it helps me often & it might help you 🩷

Things that bring $$

-Confidence (fake it till you make it if you need to)
-Not being involved in drama & bs all the time. & not always being together with a clique of girls
-Smiling on stage
-Carrying yourself as if youre happy to be there (take a day off if it’s too much)
-Venting off the floor where customers can’t hear you
-Ignoring/ walking away from idiots
-Smelling lighter/ fresher & keeping your skin moisturized
-Doing different & new hair, makeup, outfits, shoes & music

Sometimes this environment can get to be so heavy, remember these things & remember YOU ARE THAT GIRL 🩷

Which do you prefer? Personally I prefer a tiny purse but it’s starting to get on my nerves 💀 might switch back to money bag

Genuinely idk wtf to do about this but I feel like I should be able to sue . This mf btch ass DJ decided to go in the club computer and look at my ID to see where I live. He shared it with multiple other employees too. I’m done with this club for sure but idk what to do about it if there’s anything I even can. Manager knows doesn’t GAF.