u/One_Ocelot_3155

7 months in and wow, I can say what an experience. I’ve had good days and bad days but I would definitely say thick skin is needed and it could be very tiring especially working 4 days out the week I ended up going back to my part time job and joining onlyfans just because the physical aspect was a lot learned so much more pole tricks and definitely more confident in my body so sad though from what I heard back then on how money was flowing so much more especially during 2016 and the Cardi era definitely can’t wait to look back when I’m an old lady and say I went in and popped my shit foreal. One thing I learned is you only learn the ropes going into shifts and facing it head on! <3 will always love this version of me forever Iris💜💜

Hi guys! Soooo I need some advice I have been working at the club for 3 months with no issues until suddenly this dancer asked me my “dancer” name and of course I told her and once I told her she rubbed me off walked away and that was that. Following week later I see her again just coming in and I walk past her and a group of guys and she says “hey come here” so of course I come because maybe one of the guys mentioned something about me she asked me what my name was again with attitude of course I said my dancer name again she says the men want you to take a shot and I explained to her that I wasn’t feeling well the day before and I was hungover so I didn’t want one politely and she tells something to the men in Spanish and they start laughing and then she says well “TODAY IS TODAY TAKE A FUCKING SHOT” I walked away I didn’t even know what was said in Spanish and felt super uncomfortable and left it alone the rest of the night but she was staring at me the whole night. Following day today I’m at dayshift it’s an open stage I hit the stage to practice a customer comes and starts tipping me loving my floor work and she comes to sit next to him he feels super uncomfortable shes telling him to tip her and then demands that I give her my tits so she can tip me off his money and tipped me super aggressive she asks me when am I getting off stage I got off just because I let her have a turn he immediately gets up and leaves from feeling uncomfortable. I got to sit down at the bar she comes next to me after he leaves and said ugh “today sucks doesn’t it” the bartender answers because I didn’t say anything because this whole time I don’t know what I did to be treated like that. Then after not answering her she goes “ARE YOU AN OG OR A NEWBIE” says it 2x finally I said I’m new and used the excuse to use the bathroom. I’m a super nice girl I don’t start issues but also not very friendly because I’m here to make money. What do I freaking do about this?

My journey so far