u/Only-Phone-5749

Hi, I am a former client, 50M Caucasian, clean cut.
I was pretty active with the TS escort service.
I always used condoms for anal but usually not for oral.
I have had twice unprotected sex.

Many years later, I learned that there is a very large amount of TS sw providing their services while being HIV positive. They got infected a long time ago and are treated to keep their status undetectable. Technically they are not contagious, although their immune system is less strong and can catch bugs more easily.

My question is how many of you (I am not asking you specifically, because it is private) but as statistics, are positive? I have heard 60% among the escorts 40+ years old.

When i learned the fact above, it really scared me and I thought all the situations I had encountered that were not safe.
Please have protected sex!

It seems like most of the new girls I try to book are asking for a deposit with Venmo or such, prior to show up.
I understand that it gives more insurance for the girl that the client will actually show up as he claims, but in the same time, it is an open door for scams, that the girl posting is not even in the city she advertised.
I have been once victim of this type of thing: first there was a deposit through an anonymous money transfer that you can do from a convenience store. Then there was a fee for condoms and lube and Viagra. At that point, I gave up and never even saw her or heard her voice.

You will tell me to choose my provider from big sites like eros, but it goes with a higher price tag.

To providers here: do you ask for deposit? Is it usually something well perceived by your new clients?

I am fit, gentleman, educated and very clean. I am hairy 6ft and 185 lbs with a daddy profile.
I can host and I am looking for a FWB type of relationship a few days a weeks. I am single but I have kids with me the rest of the week.
No gay men. Sorry I am just not into it if you are not passable. In FWB, emphasize on friend, it is not just a hookup or a chick on the side.
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