r/TransgenderSexWorkers

I struggle enough getting hard for my partners but they don't mind the strap. Do you think it will be a hard sell for clients?

Hey I am boymoding Mtf on hormones (may be lesbian ) and want to ask are there someone with experience with trans customers and is it ok for you?

Just ranting here but does anyone else find themselves disproportionately filled with absolute hot fucking FURY at flaky clients?

My mid-week looked packed with confirmed, solid bookings and I went way out of my way to make the scheduling work. Left my dog with people and everything. EVERY SINGLE ONE has now backed out and only one of them had a valid reason (literally texted me a SS of the family group chat showing his mom was hospitalized, bless him.) not one offered to make it right, either.

And yeah I know, DEPOSITS FOR FUCKING EVERYONE going forward! even though it’s a such a PITA, it loses the discretion-conscious, and I too hate the paper trail… these mfs have ruined it for everyone.

disrespect my body, that’s what we’re here for, but for fucks sake respect my fucking time and my pockets!!

I'm planning on becoming an escort, I live just outside a city with about 500k people and I'm unsure of how that will be for clients. How dense is the population of where you live and how many clients do you tend to have?

I've been on T for 2 years, have a masculine voice, lots of body hair, pass as cis, etc. but I do have a skinny feminine figure.

I also plan on going to the gym and gaining weight and potentially being stealth and doing no-penetration BDSM. Does that sound like a better idea, or is it dangerous?

Hi ladies, they’re doing a sting operation tonight at the Ramada hotel in West Hollywood. Please be careful and make sure you screen always!!

Hi everyone,

I'm pretty new to sex work via escorting and pro-domming mostly. I'm trying to figure out where is best for me to advertise as an FTM. I'm looking into RentMen and Tryst, but I'm not sure where to really post myself since I don't really pass and still have little tits. I've been getting clients through Grindr, but I know it's only a matter of time before my account gets suspended if I keep going that route. It's just unfortunately been the most promising, and the chasers are definitely there.

I'd appreciate any advice really. I'm feeling a little discouraged because I had a promising new client ghost on me, and it was nice because he gendered me correctly and essentially threw himself onto me as a willing and eager sub and even paid me extra. I don't mind pretending to be a girl, but my north star is to be a pro-dom t-boy lol. I'm also Asian and I know that's a huge selling point, and a lot of dudes hit me up for that reason.

Anyways main questions: where should I advertise? Would you recommend either RentMen or Tryst, or somewhere else? Can I advertise as a boy on one site and a girl on the other??

Thanks so much <3

Not a hobbyist. I meet with a provider once a year. Experiences have ranged from Good to Amazing.

1. How do you balance time with clients and booking new appointments? Can't do both at the same time, obviously. Do you set aside "admin time" to set things up or is it just gaps in your client flow?

2. How do you find/make time to eat, work out, travel to another city? You get up from whatever your sleep time is and that's phone has GOT to be full of messages. How do you prioritize who to follow up with?

3. In the past year this "deposit" thing seems to have become more of a thing, even for incalls. Nobody wants to get scammed, but at some point there's got to be a middle ground where everyone wins.

If these are inappropriate questions or phrased poorly I'll delete or rephrase. Genuinely curious.

Seems like the demand and replies have plummeted, a start contrast to the endless notifications the first couple ads generated. Any tips on maintaining attraction after the Newby bubble bursts. Thx!!