u/Opposite-Law-7081

Looking for bi male friends

Hey all I’m a 39 year old bi married guy living in the north of Belgium. I’ve been married for over 10 years and we got a couple of great kids.

My wife knows I’m bi and is accepting, although we don’t do anything with it sexually (we are monogamous, don’t play with others). What I’m missing though is a bi friend who can relate to the struggles of being a bi guy. Just a bit lonely on that front and I also find that although my wife is really supportive she doesn’t really ‘get it’ so I don’t get to vent on this topic.

At the same time I’m worried that if I had a friend like that and there would be attraction, it could move to a space my wife isn’t comfortable with. E.g. what if we would shower at the gym together - this would probably be fine, what if we’d go camping together - probably not fine etc.
Would welcome any experiences and how to navigate this. (Obviously I’m also looking for guys in a similar situation to connect with but also conscious this isn’t a personals ad group)

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u/Opposite-Law-7081 — 14 days ago