Not sure what to do to ‘spice things up’ - help!
So me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 months now, we’ve both had sexual partners before, but I feel like something’s missing and I don’t know what! The sex we have is pretty boring in my opinion, and he always comes because I’m sort of down to go for however long and he doesn’t have any super weird and specific kinks, but it’s kind of meh for me and idk how to make things more enjoyable/what to tell him to do to make it better. It’s absolutely not a relationship problem, we love each other a lot and this is the only ‘issue’ between us, even though he definitely doesn’t think it is. I guess I’m just looking for some advice on how to spice things up! I’m a woman (in case that wasn’t clear lol) and he’s shit at head and has no idea what he’s doing in that area, so if anyone has advice about that and the overall sex stuff then please let me know!! Kind of just grasping at strings here