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I’ve had a thing for a Dutch singer for way too long and honestly, he’s so much older that he could easily be my dad. I don’t even know what that says about me.

Somehow his songs always feel personal, like I end up making them about me without even trying. And now I’m going to see him perform live soon, which probably isn’t helping.

I can’t even decide if I like him more now or in his mid-90s era… I might have a bit too much fun comparing both.

So let’s make it interesting. Try to guess who he is, tell me what you think of him, and maybe even what you think that says about me. If you get it right, I might show you some of my favourite photos of him… and if I like your vibe, maybe a little more.

I don’t respond to boring messages. I like effort, confidence, and something that actually pulls me in.

So don’t be boring… surprise me!

I’m going to see my favourite singer live soon, and it made me realise something about myself that I can’t really ignore anymore. It’s not just that I like him. It’s him in particular, and the way I seem to respond to him.

He’s a lot older than me, easily old enough to be my dad, and there’s something about his presence, his voice, and the way he carries himself that puts me in a very specific headspace. It’s not something I act on, but it’s definitely there every time.

What makes it more intense is that he’s completely out of reach. Not meant for me, not accessible, not even close to my world. That line is very clear, and instead of making the feeling disappear, it seems to make it stronger.

Being in the same room as him, knowing exactly what kind of reaction he triggers in me while nothing will ever happen, creates a kind of tension I can’t really ignore anymore.

At this point it doesn’t feel like a normal crush. It feels like something more specific, something tied to him, to that dynamic, and to the fact that it’s not supposed to go anywhere.

I don’t think it’s just attraction. It’s the way my mind reacts to him that makes it feel different.

Hi! I’m looking for someone consistent, verbal, and naturally a bit dominant. I really enjoy when someone takes the lead, knows how to guide a dynamic, and isn’t afraid to be expressive with words.

I’m into building something long-term where there’s trust, tension, and room to explore fantasies together. I like a mix of teasing, control, and praise, especially when it feels natural and not forced.

I’m not looking for something one-time. I want someone who’s patient, creative, and actually interested in building a connection over time.

In return I’m attentive, engaged, and I enjoy giving energy back when there’s the right chemistry.

Please be respectful, able to communicate, and actually interested in something ongoing.

Hi, I’m 18 (almost 19) and I like the idea of finding someone online that turns into something more than just random chats.

I’m a bit hard to describe. I can be quiet at first, but online I’m a lot more outspoken. I like reading, music, watching soccer (or football, whichever you prefer haha), and I collect newspaper articles for no real reason. I also tend to get a little too interested in people I don’t know yet, so take that as you will.

I don’t have real-life experience yet, but I have explored things online before. I’m interested in a dominant/submissive dynamic, but not too much if you get what I mean. I lean more submissive, but connection, trust and patience matter way more to me than anything else. I don’t do rushed or empty. If it’s good, I want it to actually last.

I’m looking for someone dominant, but not in a weird or pushy way. More someone who knows what they’re doing, is patient, a bit teasing maybe, and can actually hold a conversation.

I’ll admit something a little specific. I tend to like it more than I probably should when someone calls me their “girlfriend” once there’s a connection, so if you get why that matters, you might already understand me a bit.

If you message me, don’t just say “hi”. Tell me something about yourself and include something a little fun or slightly flirty so I know you actually read this. Also, so I know you’re real, tell me your favorite song or football club.

Let’s see if we click!

Hi, I’m 18 (almost 19) and I like the idea of finding someone online that turns into something more than just random chats.

I’m a bit hard to describe. I can be quiet at first, but online I’m a lot more outspoken. I like reading, music, watching soccer (or football, whichever you prefer haha), and I collect newspaper articles for no real reason. I also tend to get a little too interested in people I don’t know yet, so take that as you will.

I don’t have real-life experience yet, but I have explored things online before. I’m interested in a dominant/submissive dynamic, but not too much if you get what I mean. I lean more submissive, but connection, trust and patience matter way more to me than anything else. I don’t do rushed or empty. If it’s good, I want it to actually last.

I’m looking for someone dominant, but not in a weird or pushy way. More someone who knows what they’re doing, is patient, a bit teasing maybe, and can actually hold a conversation.

I’ll admit something a little specific. I tend to like it more than I probably should when someone calls me their “girlfriend” once there’s a connection, so if you get why that matters, you might already understand me a bit.

If you message me, don’t just say “hi”. Tell me something about yourself and include something a little fun or slightly flirty so I know you actually read this. Also, so I know you’re real, tell me your favorite song or football club.

Let’s see if we click!

Hi, I’m 18 (almost 19) and I like the idea of finding someone online that turns into something more than just random chats.

I’m a bit hard to describe. I can be quiet at first, but online I’m a lot more outspoken. I like reading, music, watching soccer (or football, whichever you prefer haha), and I collect newspaper articles for no real reason. I also tend to get a little too interested in people I don’t know yet, so take that as you will.

I don’t have real-life experience yet, but I have explored things online before. I’m interested in a dominant/submissive dynamic, but not too much if you get what I mean. I lean more submissive, but connection, trust and patience matter way more to me than anything else. I don’t do rushed or empty. If it’s good, I want it to actually last.

I’m looking for someone dominant, but not in a weird or pushy way. More someone who knows what they’re doing, is patient, a bit teasing maybe, and can actually hold a conversation.

I’ll admit something a little specific. I tend to like it more than I probably should when someone calls me their “girlfriend” once there’s a connection, so if you get why that matters, you might already understand me a bit.

If you message me, don’t just say “hi”. Tell me something about yourself and include something a little fun or slightly flirty so I know you actually read this. Also, so I know you’re real, tell me your favorite song or football club.

Let’s see if we click!

I wasn’t planning on having an opinion about this, but here we are.

I rewatched the Flodder movies and somehow Johnnie is the one who stands out. Not in a subtle way either.

It’s the fact that he just walks around like he knows exactly what he’s doing, and somehow it works. He gets all the girls without even trying that hard, which honestly says enough.

And yes, before anyone says it, I know. He’s chaos. He’s a bad idea. He’s exactly the type you shouldn’t go for.

But at the same time… he’s hot. There’s no point pretending otherwise.

It’s not even my usual type, which makes it worse. Or maybe more interesting.

So now I’m wondering, is this just me or do other people get it too?

Be honest. I’m curious what your take is.

I’ve had a thing for a Dutch singer for way too long and honestly… he’s so much older that he could easily be my dad. I don’t even know what that says about me.

But here’s the thing it’s not even about him now.

For me it’s his 90s era, when he was around 25 to 30. That version of him just hits different. The look, the energy, the whole vibe and oh my his voice… I keep going back to it way more than I probably should.

And now I’m about to see him live soon, which definitely isn’t helping.

So now I’m curious about you.

Try to guess who he is, but more importantly tell me what you think of him back then. If you know him I’d love to hear your opinion or even better talk about or send your favourite photos from that era, because I honestly can’t get enough of them.

Also feel free to tell me what you think it says about me that this is my type. I’m genuinely curious.

I don’t respond to boring messages. I like effort, confidence, and people who actually have something interesting to say.

So don’t be boring… surprise me.

I’ve had a thing for a Dutch singer for way too long and honestly, he’s so much older that he could easily be my dad. I don’t even know what that says about me.

Somehow his songs always feel personal, like I end up making them about me without even trying. And now I’m going to see him perform live soon, which probably isn’t helping.

I can’t even decide if I like him more now or in his mid-90s era… I might have a bit too much fun comparing both.

So let’s make it interesting. Try to guess who he is, tell me what you think of him, and maybe even what you think that says about me. If you get it right, I might show you some of my favourite photos of him… and if I like your vibe, maybe a little more.

I don’t respond to boring messages. I like effort, confidence, and something that actually pulls me in.

So don’t be boring… surprise me!

I’ve had a thing for a Dutch singer for way too long and honestly, he’s so much older that he could easily be my dad. I don’t even know what that says about me.

Somehow his songs always feel personal, like I end up making them about me without even trying. And now I’m going to see him perform live soon, which probably isn’t helping.

I can’t even decide if I like him more now or in his mid-90s era… I might have a bit too much fun comparing both.

So let’s make it interesting. Try to guess who he is, tell me what you think of him, and maybe even what you think that says about me. If you get it right, I might show you some of my favourite photos of him… and if I like your vibe, maybe a little more.

I don’t respond to boring messages. I like effort, confidence, and something that actually pulls me in.

So don’t be boring… surprise me!

Okay this might sound a little random, but it’s been on my mind…

If you were my boyfriend, would you actually share me with your friends… or even my crushes?

I’m looking for someone who can really talk, not just short replies, but the kind that pulls me in and makes me think about it. Tease me with the idea, tell me how it would happen, make it feel real.

Be a little bold, a little creative. I want to see how your mind works.

If you can keep it interesting, we’ll see where it goes

Low effort won’t get a reply, so at least try

I’ve had a thing for a Dutch singer for way too long… and honestly, he’s so much older that he could easily be my dad. I don’t even know what that says about me.

Somehow his songs always feel personal, like I end up making them about me without even trying. And now I’m going to see him perform live soon, which probably isn’t helping.

I can’t even decide if I like him more now or in his mid-90s era… I might have a bit too much fun comparing both.

So let’s make it interesting. Try to guess who he is, tell me what you think of him, and maybe even what you think that says about me. If you get it right, I might show you some of my favourite photos of him… and if I like your vibe, maybe a little more.

I don’t respond to boring messages. I like effort, confidence, and something that actually pulls me in.

So don’t be boring… surprise me!

I’m going to see my favourite singer perform live soon, and I can’t lie… I’ve had a bit of a thing for him for a while. It’s one of those situations where I get a little too into it. Him, a few other famous crushes… my mind doesn’t always keep it innocent.

He’s also a lot older than me. Like, could easily be my dad kind of older. I don’t really know what that says about me.
And the worst part? I can’t even decide if I like him more now or in his mid-90s era… I might have way too much fun comparing both. I do like showing photos from both though. And if I like you, maybe a few of me as well.

I feel like most guys would get a little jealous… I’m more interested in the ones who don’t.

So I’m curious…

If you were talking to me and you knew I was going to see him, what would you say? Would you tease me, play along with it, or try to make me want you more instead?

I don’t respond to boring messages. I like effort, confidence, and something that actually pulls me in.
If you know what you’re doing with words, I’ll notice.

So don’t be boring… show me.

I’m not just looking for a one night thing, I want someone I can build a connection with. Someone who enjoys taking the lead in a calm, gentle way, and who genuinely likes to care, guide, and make me feel safe and wanted.

I love that soft, protective energy… being treated like a princess, a little spoiled, a little guided. Someone who knows how to mix affection with teasing, and who can get into my head just by the way they talk.

If you’re patient, confident, and enjoy creating that kind of dynamic where words, tension, and care all come together, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me in DM’s how you’d treat me, I tend to reply fast to messages that actually put in some effort!

There’s this Dutch singer I’ve had a weirdly long emotional crush on… and I might tell you about him if you actually catch my attention.

It’s a bit embarrassing, but sometimes his songs feel like they were written for me. I read into them way too much… and I’m not even sure I should be proud of that.

He’s also… a lot older than me. Like, could easily be my dad kind of older. Which probably makes it worse.

Part of me wonders what he’d think if he knew… I kinda hope he’d find it exciting.

I’m not here for dry “hey” messages. If you want my attention, give me something with effort. Long messages. A bit of teasing. Some confidence. Make me feel a spark and I’ll match it! Surprise me. :)

I’m a girl who loves the idea of a soft dom presence in her life. Someone gentle, teasing, and confident in a quiet way. The kind of person who knows how powerful soft words and praise can be. I melt over being appreciated, especially when it’s slow, intentional, and full of tension.

I do enjoy slipping into dirty talk fairly quickly, letting the mood build and sharing those naughty thoughts that linger in your head when you imagine being together. At the same time, I’m really looking for something longer-term. Someone who enjoys talking, fantasizing, maybe roleplaying a little, and exploring what we would do if we were in the same room.

Rough or aggressive dynamics aren’t really it for me. I’m drawn to warmth, softness, playful control, and a connection that grows over time.

Does this sound like your kind of dynamic, and do you think you can make me cum with your words? DM me. :)

I’m going to see my favorite, wat older Dutch, singer perform live soon, and I can’t lie.. I’ve had a bit of a thing for him for a while. It’s one of those situations where I get a little too into it. Him, a few other famous crushes… my mind doesn’t always keep it innocent.

So it made me wonder if there are actually guys out there who wouldn’t mind that. Or maybe even enjoy it a little more than they should.

Would you lean into it? Play with the idea? Or try to make me want you more instead?

I tend to get attached pretty quickly when someone knows what they’re doing with words. If you’re confident, a bit bold, and know how to keep things interesting… I might start calling you mine sooner than you expect.

I don’t respond to boring messages. Give me something with effort, a bit of tension, something that actually pulls me in.

I’m curious what you’d say! :)

18 [F4M] I’m seeing him live soon… curious how you’d react 😏

I’m going to see my favourite Dutch singer live soon, and I’ll be honest… I’ve had a bit of a thing for him for a while. He’s a lot older than me, the kind of age where he easily could’ve been my dad. I don’t really know what that says about me.

His songs always feel strangely personal to me, like I end up making them about my own life without meaning to. I’m not even sure I should admit that.

So it made me think…

If you were talking to me, and you knew I was going to see him, what would you say? Would you tease me about it, or try to shift my attention somewhere else? Or maybe you wouldn’t mind as much as you should…

I tend to respond more to people who actually put some thought into what they say. Longer messages, a bit of tension, something a little more daring.

Especially if you’re the type who wouldn’t mind me getting a little lost in the moment… and finding my own way with him.

I’m curious what you’d come up with! :)

I’m in the mood for someone who knows exactly how to take the lead in a calm, confident way. Someone patient, a little possessive, and very good with words… the kind of energy that can slowly get into my head and stay there.

If you think you can guide me, tease me, and push all the right buttons just by the way you talk… tell me in DM’s how you’d get me there.

I can’t wait to cum. ;)

There’s this Dutch singer I’ve had a weirdly long emotional crush on… and I might tell you about him if you actually catch my attention.

It’s a bit embarrassing, but sometimes his songs feel like they were written for me. I read into them way too much… and I’m not even sure I should be proud of that.

He’s also… a lot older than me. Like, could easily be my dad kind of older. Which probably makes it worse.

Part of me wonders what he’d think if he knew… I kinda hope he’d find it exciting.

I’m not here for dry “hey” messages. If you want my attention, give me something with effort.

Long messages. A bit of teasing. Some confidence. Make me feel a spark and I’ll match it!

Surprise me. :)