What are some ways that she took charge before you officially settled into your role below her?
For example: even when we were dating, my wife always drove the car. She said she gets carsick if she isn’t driving, but I think she just likes being more in control.
Is anyone else here not allowed to cum without permission?
My wife forbids me from touching myself and only allows me to cum during sex. That said, I’m not even allowed to cum every time we have sex. Sometimes once she orgasms a sufficient number of times, she simply says good night and goes to sleep. It leaves me feeling frustrated, but also very excited? I love that she gets off. That’s my main priority. But it feels like making me wait just extends my own pleasure. Eventually she will let me cum and it will feel amazing.
The reason I say honor system is that she doesn’t make me wear a cage. She likes to be able to grab my hard dick through my pants whenever she wants.