Do I put up with small dick comments for sex?
I can’t think of anywhere else I can go for honest advice about this. In the past couple months I’ve had a casual hook up thing going for me but the downside is that she’s really into being in charge and dishing out SPH.
I’ve never been into getting humiliated about my dick size but it’s a huge kink for her and she keeps teasing me about it.
I’m about 4.5” hard and she knows I’m embarrassed by this stuff but she says that’s part of what makes it hot for her. The sex is genuinely good and I play along with it but it’s all a bit emasculating for me.
I’ve been constantly struggling with whether I end the relationship and keep my pride, or just put up with it to keep the no strings attached sex.
On the one hand I genuinely find her really hot and I’m getting regular, casual sex for the first time since uni. I’m a 24yo guy and obviously it’s a struggle going long periods without getting laid.
On the other hand if I had the choice I’d rather be the dominant one in the bedroom and the whole situation feels like I’m being used. Having a small dick isn’t something I want to be reminded of constantly and it really bruises my ego.
I really want to hear what other small dick guys think about this and what you’d do in my position. Not exactly something I can ask for people’s opinions on IRL.