Where can my wife and I find D/s porn with no rough stuff or humiliation?
TL;DR looking for links to porn/sources/creators/resources that feature Dominance/submission (D/s) WITHOUT violence or humiliation. Thanks!
The long story:
My wife & I are starting to explore D/s role-playing in which she is submissive and obeys my verbal commands. What makes it so hot for both of us is that her compliance to my commands is NOT based on fear, physicality, violence, or coercion.
The issue is that we want to explore this dynamic more but haven’t been able to find porn or resources that features “obedience/submission" without rough stuff or humiliation. To be clear, there is absolutely nothing wrong with consensual rough-stuff or humiliation, but it's not what floats our boat.
For context our scenes are something like: wife may or may not be lightly bound or collared, she is told to undress, turn around, bend over, kneel, crawl to me, open her mouth, don't touch my cock until I say it's okay, etc.
We’ve tried searching for "gentle obedience", "gentle submission", "soft obedience" and "soft submission" to no avail. Those terms tend to only surface femdom or more of the same physical or humiliation themed D/s.
Any relevant info, links, suggested search terms, resources, etc graciously appreciated!