u/Pale-Salamander9570

Abstinence Kills My Sex Drive

A lot of advice here for achieving HF orgasms recommends giving up porn, masturbating, edging, ejaculating, even just touching your dick, for days, weeks or even months. The theory seems to be that abstinence creates sexual tension that has to find release, with people reporting increased libido, rock hard morning wood, pent up sexual frustration, and wet dreams.

r/aneros and r/Mindgasm are especially strict with these rules.

But ....... abstinence has the opposite effect on my sex drive, instead of driving it to new heights, it kills it. Within a few days on not touching my dick, I start to loose all interest in sex. After a week I just don't care anymore. If I don't fuel the fire, the fire goes out.

Anyone else feel the same way?

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u/Pale-Salamander9570 — 2 days ago

I have seen plenty of videos of people having prostate orgasms, but they never seem to be enjoying them. I'm not talking about a classic penile ejaculation where the fluid is pumped out in spurts, but that steady flow of precum/prostate fluid that happens hands free from a dick or dildo. In most videos the bottom doesn't even seem to be aware of the release, and in many cases their dicks are flaccid.

I can have endless dry orgasms using Aneros techniques, but never wet, so that has been a goal for some time. You often read stories about people enjoying a prostate session, and afterwards finding huge puddle of cum that they didn't know they had released.

So is there any feeling when the prostate releases?

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u/Pale-Salamander9570 — 17 days ago