Since my wife doesn't drink coffee and she's not an early bird either, I am wondering if there's a female in a similar situation, if you're looking for a good morning conversation or have a day off today and just want a new vibe, don't be shy. This could be short term or long term.
? Does anyone ever feel like they are to intimidating to be approached??
Not on purpose, not be rude, just generally perceived as un approachable. My wife and I had this micro conversation about it and it made me think, how far down this rabbit hole I wanted to dig. On the B side of the conversation, I started describing my personality match not knowing I was being honest about those of female friend I could actually get along with. Yes she caught on, but no hard feelings between us because she realized she couldn't fill that void.
I hate them , baby, babes, love, sweetheart, and any other stupid fuckin pet name you can think of then I hate that too. People if your spouse tells you to STOP calling them by a pet name, the very least you can honor that minimum request. It's not that difficult. If we have to fallow your rules guidelines and boundaries, the for everything mentally stable quite with pet names this is my bare minimum boundary too.
There comes a point in silence where the tension just snaps, you voice the concerns, address the issues, be upfront with honesty, yet nothing changes. It seems as though the only important topics are work, finances, and issues with everything else.
The time has come to fill the void, what I'm looking for is a female who understands this situation and wants to escape the drama called married life. Someone who is looking to mentally escape with a good banter, non-judgmental venting, good humor, somewhat of an old school mechanic/ biker mentality, you know the non offensive type.
We all know how meeting new people with a good vibe can be so if the vibe is right so is the connection
This post is for both Males and Females. NO DMs. Just answer in the comments.
? Was the change because of your partner or for your partner???
When Was last time you met some with no interruptions?
You're doing what you can to occupy the busy mind and then BAM, A conversation out of nowhere picks up and it's so relieving because it's just two grown people enjoying each other's company as a distraction from the mundane, boring home life. A refresh of a genuine smile that you get to have at home.
? When was the last time???