Did I do this wrong?
Hi everyone, gonna give a little TMI here, so feel free to scroll if that’s not your thing 😅
I tried a prostate massager for the first time because I’ve always imagined myself as more of a bottom/vers, but honestly I mostly just felt “something inside me” rather than pleasure. I still 💦 and honestly a lot more than usual since I was jerking off while using it but the experience felt underwhelming compared to what I expected.
Now I feel weirdly disconnected from the porn/fantasies I normally enjoy, and it’s making me question how I see myself sexually. Has anyone else experienced this when starting anal/prostate play?
Also, any advice would be appreciated because I always had a clear image of myself as a bottom or vers, and now I’m sitting here like… am I a side? Am I secretly a top? 😭😅
I was told to post this here because this particular place would have some good help.