u/PanicMountain5802

42M, married 11 years — not looking to change my situation, just looking to add something that feels missing.

I’m a pretty laid-back, sarcastic guy who genuinely enjoys making people laugh. Fair warning: my sense of humor can be a little unfiltered, so if you’re easily offended, we probably won’t click. But if you like someone who can keep things light, joke around, and still have real conversations when it counts, we’ll get along just fine.

What I’m really looking for is connection, good conversation, consistency, and that feeling of actually looking forward to talking to someone. I miss that spark, that back-and-forth that makes your day a little better.

Age isn’t a big deal to me, connection matters more than a number.

If you’re in a similar place and just want something real without changing your situation, feel free to reach out.

I’ve been married 11 years and the marriage started off great. The last 4 years things have been slowing down considerably and I feel like we are just roommates. We don’t really spend too much time together. I love her an care about her, but the in love part is almost completely gone. I’ve tried talking with her, but we just always fall back in the same rut. I’m looking for somebody to chat with that’s maybe going through the same thing. I’d love to talk to chat with somebody and feel alive again and not feel so alone. Location doesn’t matter.