u/Parking_Check3744

Why is findomsupportgroup lacking new posts?

No new posts since 10 hours ago.

I logged out to see if maybe dommes who have me blocked may have posted... but nope, dommes aren't posting.

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u/Parking_Check3744 — 9 days ago

Financially committed to my domme and our dynamic...

Like a faithful spouse is emotionally and sɛxually committed to their marriage.

If I were a married domme or married sub, I would not indulge in findom with anyone except my wife. 🙂

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u/Parking_Check3744 — 11 days ago

Stereotypes

Why do people assume I'm a man instead of a woman??

Findom-wise, I am very respectful to my domme and don't treat her like a sɛx worker, kink dispenser, kinky service provider, content seller, cam girl, etc. That's a glaring indication that I'm a woman.

I only whine about the lack of sɛxual activities in our dynamic before my MENSTRUAL CYCLE starts. Aren't we all feral a few days before our period?

I'm a woman who exudes toxic masculinity and financial submission at the same time.

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u/Parking_Check3744 — 11 days ago

Dommes who enjoy cooking

Add an electric hot pot (w/ a grill) to your wishlist.

I bought my domme one for Mother's Day, and she's been cooking Korean food at home instead of going to a Korean restaurant.

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u/Parking_Check3744 — 12 days ago

👀 Is anyone planning to meet their domme/sub(s) this Summer (Northern Hemisphere folks)?

My domme will be visiting my state's capital this Summer, and I plan to travel there to meet and eat her. 🤑

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u/Parking_Check3744 — 12 days ago

Too freaked out

I'm a 1 on the freak scale. I like "boring" sɛx.

Some of you are too freaked out and scare the kink out of me.

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u/Parking_Check3744 — 13 days ago

Newbies, be transactional in the beginning

Subs should prove they're senders in the beginning by sending a high portion of their "budget" upfront... like putting a down payment on a dynamic's foundation.

But this should only be done with dommes who are legit, fools!

If you can't tell a legit domme, who isn't going to ghost/block after you send, and a scamming domme... find something safe to do.

Findom isn't for idiots who can't spot glaring red flags (as subs and dommes).

Don't send shít to a domme who gives off pickpocket vibes. If you don't know what those vibes are... you shouldn't be a sub. A lot of dommes have a thief aura like they've stolen cash from their parents.

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u/Parking_Check3744 — 13 days ago

A broke domme is worse than a broke sub

Needing money from subs is worse than not having any money to send to dommes.

One puts you in an extremely vulnerable position to engage in kinks/fetishes that you may not enjoy...

The other one just puts you in the ignore pile.

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u/Parking_Check3744 — 13 days ago

Who raised y'all???

Gifts should be bought/ordered in advance... not on the day of (a holiday or special day).

My domme received her Mother's Day gifts May 2nd, May 3rd and May 4th via Amazon. I didn't order gifts today since the gifts wouldn't have arrived today.

My dad taught me to buy gifts in advance, even in real life relationships. Don't wait until the last minute (day of)

Stop telling subs to send to you on the day of. It's stupid.

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u/Parking_Check3744 — 13 days ago

Dommes who want irl subs versus dommes who want strictly online subs

The way that strictly online dommes react to subs who want irl dynamics with our dommes irks me so bad. 😤

My domme wanted a portable kitchen island that she can roll around her kitchen, so I bought her one. I want to assemble it for her but live 600 miles (900+ km) away. She wishes I could assemble it for her too.

You dommes who wouldn't invite your subs to your houses are weird. Y'all claim to want connections with us but only want to have online dynamics. 🙄

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u/Parking_Check3744 — 13 days ago