A few girls keep bothering me.. 31M, girls unknown age.
I just moved and every weekend there are a few young female (unknown age) always sitting on the bench across my home. At first I thought it was just their normal routine, but then i kept noticing the stairs when I do lawn work or chores outside.
Then one of them actually started flirting with me. I told them they were too young for me and they dont flirt anymore, but they still sit there every weekend.
I have no idea how old they are, but I dont even want to ask because I feel like asking will land me in trouble. They do seem developed, but the way they dress makes me unsure. Only one of them seems to be 18+, and she does attract me.
I cant deny that i do like the attention. But I don't want to be careful. Ive never been to jail and my largest age gap was 4 years.
I am interested in the one that looks 18+, and she one time sat on the bench alone till like 3 am. I think they are literally putting themselves in danger to get my attention. I do want to mention I look young, i live alone, i work out and dress well. I am also east asian which is quite popular with the younger generation these days.
Is it okay for me to approach her? Will i get in trouble for this? How should i handle this?