lasting during dex
I, 27F, have been with my boyfriend, 27M, for 5 years now. One thing that’s been happening a bit more often is that he can’t last during sex. It’s pretty inconsistent how long he can last, but lately, it’s been quicker. We love each other very much and we both enjoy our sex life. I find myself to be.. dirtier than him, like craving it more than him. I can’t help but get out of the mood when he has to slow down so soon and I just feel like I’m always in a rush to finish before he does. It’s unfortunate because I’m not super into finishing in other ways, like him going down on me. It feels good to start with, but I just can’t finish that way. I feel like I’m stuck and sometimes don’t even look forward to sex cuz I feel like I just have to worry about not making him finish quick. He doesn’t watch porn or masturbate on his own, we have busy lives so when we do have a chance to do anything, we like to do it together. Is there anything I can do or is this something I have to just accept?