u/Party_Fox4561

Hi!

Just getting the generals and stuff out before anything else, I am

• pansexual with no preference

• biologically female

• an assumed sub based off of preference, my general personality, research, and really just distaste of being in charge of anything unless I have to

• pre-med college student who just finished another semester

• single

• about a 6/10 looks wise in my personal opinion

• diagnosed with anxiety and depression and am medicated for both

• from the us

So now that thats out of the way...... I'm looking for Someone more experienced in bdsm/kink stuff who would be willing to talk with me about it. Ive known about this stuff for a good few years now, and tbh its basically just been something I get off to and daydream about.

Im a little (okay more than a little) nervous about actually doing kink stuff or really any actual sex stuff which doesn't make sense for this sub but still. In the very few times ive actually been penetrated or touched by myself or anyone or anything I hated it, its a bit embarrassing but I kind of just dry hump things to get off. So you can kinda (hopefully) see why I need someone to slowly and patiently guide me through this stuff.

This isn't to say that I dont get off on or constantly think about different kinks and scenarios though! I do that a looooooooooooooot,even if its some stuff that freaks me out or is just weird it won't leave my head until I do actually get off on it if that makes sense?

Sorry im rambling

But if you are willing to talk and maybe guide me on this stuff please dm!!

Hi! Im a bi submissive and have been practicing bdsm for about 4 years now, really only solo stuff and online with very few things irl.

I have pelvic floor muscle dysfunction, which basically means that my pelvic floor is too tight and pinching my abdominal nerves. It gives me extreme pain and cramping after orgasm, without fail every time typically for 30 minutes to a hour depending on how powerful the orgasm.

So basically, every single one is ruined for me and theyres only 2 options - don't have sex, or learn to get off on pain.

I want a dominant who gets off on my pain, on my tears after a ruined orgasm because my own body doesn't think im worth having one

Ill answer wtv questions you have if you do ofc so please hmu if youre interested!