u/Peg_Receiver

I am a switch. I know I'm a switch. The submissive side is strong though. When we were dating, I expressed this to her many times. We were in an LDR at the time and we would video call almost every night. Many times we would end the call masturbating together, and I would have a toy inside me. She would always tell me how hot it was.

I was straight with her when I said I wanted to be pegged. No question, this is something I *almost* needed. Yes, the desire is that strong. That was almost 11 years ago.

I'm the intervening time, I've brought this up several times. I bought her a strap on. I sent her a video of a wife pegging her husband. Gentle, nothing crazy. It started with him having a toy in, her teasing him with it, the giving him oral, but no orgasm. Then she pegged him to orgasm. It took her a week to even watch it. When she finally did, it seemed like she was aroused by it, but admitted it was intimidating.

I suggested maybe we just try a toy to start out with. She agreed, I got one with a remote she can control. I showed it to her, got a seemingly unenthusiastic "Oh wow", and that was it.

I made the offer to give her a massage, foot rub, anything. Especially after I found places like this. She travels for work, and I offered to maybe put on a show for her over FaceTime, she seemed into it, then nothing.

Maybe tomorrow.

I love my wife, but at the same time just feel dismissed. I feel like she doesn't look at me the same, or worse has lost all attraction to me. My submissive side is screaming. I feel broken. I feel confused. I feel like I should just give up, use toys and whatnot in private to scratch the itch, and accept that she just isn't interested.

One thing I have tried to emphasis is I need touch. Not want. Not it would be nice. Need. Fingers in my hair, a hug, rubbing my shoulder, a snuggle at night. SOMETHING. Every time she walks by, I look at her, knowing that she knows I need this, and she just looks at me and says "What?"

I wonder sometimes if she is just being deliberately cruel. We have talked about this many many times. Yet she still doesn't get that I am trying to plead with her to just reach out first.

I'm sorry, I feel stupid for posting this, but I needed to vent somewhere. Everytime I think about this, my brain gets jumbled, I feel like I can't form coherent thoughts, and I'm just speaking gibberish. It's the same feeling I get when I try to tell her what I'm craving. She understands, but won't take the slightest step toward me.

Thank you for reading. It feels a little better to get this off my chest.

Edit: I'm not sure what I'm looking for here. Validation? Advice? Someone to say it's okay and I'm not pathetic?

I had a pet up here, liberal feminist, she tried to debate one in a while, usually if it had been too long since I put my MAGA cock down her throat. She loved to be manhandled and used. Facefuck until she lost control and pissed on the floor, she was a yes please. Eat my ass, sure, and this pet was all about it. Wear a plug because I want you to, yes sir. She especially loved getting cooked while I was deep in her ass, she always squirted when I rearranged her guts like that. Such a good pet.

MAGA breeding can fix this hellscape, one converted slut at a time.

Most definitely not a bot!

46, MWM, Dad bod, but relatively fit. I do what I can to stay in shape. Looking for daytime weekdays, which I know is a complete pain...

What I'm looking for isn't for everyone, and odds are I'll get 0 responses, but one has to try, right?

Looking for a woman who would be interested in pegging me. I know I enjoy it, but my FWB and I payed ways, and I'm feeling the itch again. I will gladly worship you as you see fit, no issues there. If I had to place what I'd be happiest finding it would be a sensual domme. I'm not looking to be whipped and beaten, more used for pleasure.

Anyway, if you might be interested, there's no harm in hitting me up. Hope to hear from someone, I just have a feeling that the right woman is out there and there's only one way to find out

45, MWM, Upstate NY.

I had a FWB that would peg me. She was inexperienced, but made me feel amazing. The first time she slipped it in there were fireworks in my head, among other places. We experimented a lot, and I discovered I really liked riding her strap while she stoked and teased me. One time she tied me up, legs pulled towards my hands, completely exposed and blindfolded. Not being able to see what was happening was so erotic.

I wish I could find a woman willing to do it again. There was a lot more we were curious to do, but to many issues came to the top and the FWB ran it's course. What we did for much more in this category than anywhere else in the pegging subreddits. I would love to find a more sensual type situation than straight femdom.

Not sure if will happen again, but I'm hopeful it will at some point, because my prostate really misses the stimulation, and my brain misses just letting go.

Had a FWB that pegged me, definitely needing it again. Not looking for guys. Women only