I (F) am trying to plan a gangbang, but I am struggling. I only want to invite men who are respectful, who are feminists, who get why women choose the bear, who understand why the 4B movement exists, and who don't take any of that personally because they also agree that these problems exist. On top of that, there are still the usual requirements with a gangbang, being able to maintain erections, not getting "the ick" being in a sexual scene with other men, etc. I especially don't want to ask men who might come out later with allegations against them or accusations of SA. Finding one or even 2 guys who meet these requirements is doable. But finding 4 or 5 or 6? Feels impossible 😭
This is mostly a rant, but if there's any advice, toss it out there.